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Q: azoospermia getting pregnant
asked by: *star* on April 9th, 2008
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Well we got some devestating news from the doctor yesterday.

Nate got a call from the doctor about his Sperm analsys. We have been waiting and waiting for the results from the test to see if there was a problem with his little guys. Well...

Its him, not me that has the problem.

He has been diagnosed with azoospermia as in NO little guys in there.

So here we sit, I am absolutely devestated, he is too. I came home in tears yesterday, and I could tell that he had been crying because his eyes were all red and swollen. I do not blame him, but I know he is beating himself up, because he is the reason we are not getting pregnant.

So the doctor said that he wants to see him to do some tests. He wants to do some blood work to see if it is hereditary and if it is and he just isn't producing sperm, then there is no chance that we will conceive.

If it isn't hereditary, then there is a blockage of some sort and they will need to do a biopsy to see that there is actually sperm being produced but just cant get out. There is a chance that they can unblock the blockage and things will just be fine. Also they can extract the good sperm and we can try to go with the IUI route.

So thats where we are, broken and disapointed. But we are both strong people, and we will get through this. I am not being very strong right now, but I will get better. I cried myself to sleep last night and I could hardly open my eyes this morning.

There is a girl who is pregnant in our office who tried for 4 years with her husband. She went through the gamet of fertility doctors only to find out that her husband had a low sperm count and motility. She had given up all hope, and one day found out she was pregnant. So she is giving me hope.
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RachieBaby82
replied on April 9th, 2008
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Oh Heather...I am so, so sorry. I am seriously in tears for you right now. Crying or Very sad Life is so not fair sometimes. I know that you & Nate will get through this, and someway, somehow you WILL be parents one day, but I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. I just can't even tell you how sorry I am. If you need to talk at all, please feel free to pm me, sweetheart. *Hugs*
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nightangel73
replied on April 9th, 2008
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Heather so sorry to hear about the news Sad.. At least now you both know the cause and you are going to take the next steps. I agree in not giving up hope.

I tell you something and I really think is no joke but you trust God that he knows what he is doing. I have had doors closed many times to later understand why God did things the way he did. And it is okay to cry but remember always trust in God. I will keep you both in my prayers.
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Mabel
replied on April 9th, 2008
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(((hugs)))
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DPrssd
replied on April 10th, 2008
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I'm am so sorry Heather. You must be devastated. Thank God you got all the testing done. I really hope that there is just a blockage and you can have the procedure to fix it. What a bumpy road of ttc you've had. It's totally not fair. I wish I could give you a great big hug.
Stick close together and make it both your journey. I believe you will get there, I know you will. There has got to be a way with either diagnosis. His father was able to conceive so hopefully it's not hereditary.
I will keep you both in my prayers. Please keep me posted...
Take good care, and you are totally entitled to a good cry.
xoxo
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trijos21
replied on April 10th, 2008
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im soo sorry!!! Im with dprssd, i hope it is just a blockage. Everything is meant to happen for a reason, god has a plan for you guys!!! big hugs!!
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Rae02
replied on April 14th, 2008
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I am definitely praying for you guys..
(((hugs)))
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*star*
replied on April 17th, 2008
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Thanks girls, it means a lot to have you all here to vent to about everything.
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Volaremos
replied on April 19th, 2008
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OOh no sweetie

XXHUGS HUGS HUGSXXX
I am so in tear right now, so sorry for this. Its just not fair hun. Poor DH, i cant even imagine how much pain he's in right now.
I really do pray that its only a blockage & that Docs can fix that soon.You guys so deserve to be parent. & believe me you will be sooner or later hugs.

I'll be so praying for you & wont give up untill you get that perfect BFP.

XXX hugs XXX
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Bonita11
replied on March 2nd, 2009
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Azoospermia
I got this news some months ago and I can tell I felt like dying Sad Now my husband is having some treatmets (mostly pills) and the doctor said that some semen base is starting to grow at his body. The doctor will take this base with a little niddle and will put it directly to my egg. So I am so much reliefed now and I will recommend you to do so. Check a doctor and start immediately a cure. One day you will be mother and that's for sure Smile Just take away your stress and feel relaxed as much as possible. The baby will come . . .
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Melbs
replied on June 10th, 2009
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You are not alone.
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Melbs
replied on June 10th, 2009
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You are not alone. I also just received the news that my hubby has azoospermia. We just scheduled an appointment with a Urologist for further tests...it is still devastating but we are keeping strong and trusting in God.

Bonita, how did everything go?
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REllen
replied on July 20th, 2009
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Husband with Azoospermia
hi to all.

I'm in the same boat. my husband was diagnosed with Azoospermia. we've been married for 5 yrs. it is very stessful and sad. i dont want to blame him. it could have been me. but i feel a sense of anger in me too. like why me? how come i picked a guy with this illness? we did TESE/ICSI. but there were no sperms. we did not opt for Donor. i cried so much. but in my heart i wont stop praying. God has to do something. he knows what's going on inside me. please. please. help me God. i have heard of so many miracle stories. please let my story be one too. Please.
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