I am tired of being lied to all the time by my boyfriend of 6 years. I've been the sole bread winner and a full time student for over a year... Full time worker for over 3 years. while he has held on to a job for never longer than a month or 2. He does nothing around the house. We have a 3 year old together and he's really good around her. But I catch him in stupid lies all the time. And he never i mean NEVER is on time for me. He's such a jerk. For my birthday he told me that he was taking me out to breakfast. when we finished i was got our daughter and told him I'd be in the car waiting for him to pay and what not. He looked at me and said 'aren't you paying?' what?!?!? I told him that taking someone out means your paying. he had planned on it but spent all the money before, but decided not to tell me.
I put money on a card for him to pay the cell phone and asked him if he did, he looked me in the eyes and said yes.... I looked it up and he hadn't... but instead took the money out and spent it on other things... I dunno what I just found out... so he took my entire paycheck and spent it without paying the cell phone... which will be shut off soon now.... I hate to break up with him over money.... but I'm starting to feel like it's enough...
Are you afraid of being alone? Do you have to have a man? You can do bad all by yourself. Change the locks, take him off the bank account and tell him you have 1 child you don't need 2. If you allow him to lounge around the house and sponge off of you and your daughter, that is exactly what he will do. A liar can't be trusted. How many ways does he have to show you he is immature, irresponsible and a liar. Is that the king of values, you want your daughter to grow up seeing in her dad? I'm amazed you have kept him around for 6 years, he should of been out of there on day 6. He hasn't been trained or shall I say "raised" in how to be a man, therefore, you have to let him go figure it out, but not on your couch. Kick him out and don't give it a second thought, he won't change, he doesn't know how.