I have some questions/concerns about my son that I believe may have Aspergers .

I’ll keep it short and I won’t go through all the details, symptoms, etc.
But I started doing a lot of reading & researching the last few weeks.
I read through so many neurological, social, childhood disorders, you name it.
I actually stumbled upon Aspergers and immediately the first thing that popped in my head was OMG.
However, some in my family think that I’m overreacting.

I read on here about other children with Asperger’s having meltdowns at school or at home.
But, we’ve never really had this kind of problem.
What my child has instead are hyperactive fits.
Sometimes he seems like a normal, energetic kid.
Other times he’s completely nonstop, over-the-top, bouncing off the wall.
And then there are times when he just kind of zones out.
I look at him and he has a blank stare.

Everyone has advice/suggestions - more discipline, etc.
I wish I could believe them, that I’m just overreacting.
However, I truly believe that it goes much deeper than that.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.