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Q: are we having sex to much? or am i not working?
asked by: bottledwater on August 5th, 2008
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my girlfriend and i have been having constant sex for a week. i mean as soon as she comes over she wants it, till when she has to go. this isnt the problem for me, i love the fact she wants me so badly and i want her just as much. unfortunatly i can only get up for her 2-3 times a night, when she wants more. and in the end as much as i want to please her with myself i must resort to using my fingers to fill in where i cannot.

short form: every day, 2-3 times a day. what i would like to know is this normal, is she asking too much from me for more?

or am i suffering from erectile dysfunction or something similar?

the reason why i ask in the womans health section, is because it is a problem both of us are trying to answer but dont know who to ask, and i felt that with experiances with boyfriends in the past the ladies could tell me better (and i trust you girls more then the guys, im sure you dont mind telling the truth, where as guys will be guys)
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Maddie34
replied on August 5th, 2008
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No, I don't think you're weird or that there's anything wrong with you. My ex and I had sex once, maybe twice a day (depends how early in the morning we did it) but we'd draw out the time or two we did have sex. I never felt like I wasn't getting enough.

Start off with full body massages for each other, then slowly work your way to other things. Foreplay is half the fun of sex!

I never understand people who are having sex like 5 times a day. I'd rather have amazing, thorough sex one time at night than having short, rushed sex five times any day.
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boxerclaycity
replied on November 12th, 2008
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I think your okay
My husband is in his twenty's and he can only handle twice a day. To be honest that is all I want also so we are good..LOL....but I don't think you are having any problems with your man hood. I agree with Maddie34, try new things. FORPLAY is best. Just keep her happy and you will go far.
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Honey711
replied on November 22nd, 2008
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I agree every male is different. Plus trying new ways to maybe please her will not hurt the relationship.
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WinterDreams
replied on November 22nd, 2008
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If she still isnt happy tell her to buy some sex toys and please herself Smile
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Jazzy77
replied on November 23rd, 2008
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1 what Winter Dreams said. or better than that, why don't YOU buy some sex toys? you don't have to resort to fingering her...why don't you go down on her?

the sex toys is a great idea, but when y'all use them, don't just sit back and watch her get herself off (that's ok once in a while), but PARTICIPATE...in fact YOU DRIVE so to speak. take control of the sex toy and you drive it while she directs you on what she needs to feel good...and be enthusiastic about it.

y'all will have a great time!
jasmine
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WinterDreams
replied on November 23rd, 2008
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here here, Smile its all good fun, Im sure you will both love it :p
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JavaMissus
replied on December 10th, 2008
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My husband is older...We only have sex two or maybe three times a week, however, he finger stimulates me another two times...If he doesn't do this I use Eric my Eroscillator....

Women love sex but the hardest thing to get out of their mouth is that they long for it....Many keep this to themselves and silently die from the want of what they are missing...I had put under a Chat that I could have sex 365 days of the year....Then I deleted it....I was embarrassed....I thought, what will they think seeing I am this older person, but that is just the way it is....I could have it and love every minute of it....

I often wonder if any older women ever show their faces around here...I know they are horny enough as they have written me professing this...Yet they lurk....This is my biggest gripe in life.....Well, maybe not my biggest but it ranks up there....And this being that I feel that I do a solo act in talking about sex with the senior citizens....

So I talk about it with the younger ones...Let them know that they sure will not die out so go on ahead and get it on.....

As you can see I am having the time of my life...

TC,
C

Now I will disappear until I get up the nerve to show my face again.... hides
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