I was with my boyfriend for 3 months. Recently he told me that he didn't feel a good connection. He said it wasn't a big deal, and said that it might just be him. I wasn't too concerned about it. I felt a good connection, I thought anyways. Sunday night he wrote me an email and said that he didn't feel right continuing our relationship, due to lack of communication, and my reservations. I am pretty reserved, but I felt like I opened up to him. He taught me how to kiss, I had my first orgasm with him, we spent the holidays together, his birthday together, valentine's day together, and I lost my virginity to him. I know that we did have some communication issues, mostly my fault. I have a hard time opening up and trusting people. I talked to him online yesterday for a couple hours and we talked about maybe getting back together. I am willing to work hard to make this relationship work, but I don't know if he is or not. I keep asking him and he doesn't respond. I asked him last night if he is "in or out" he said in. I don't know if this is just because we were going to talk again, or if he is willing to work things out. Oh, and about a week ago, he met a girl from match.com (the same way we met), and he claims that they are "just friends" and that he doesn't want to pursue a relationship with her. I want to believe him. He met with her and her friends a few more times after that. I really want to be able to work things out, because I really care about him. I don't know how I can change his mind. Any thoughts/suggestions? Thank you for listening.