I have been living with my boyfriend for
about 6 months. Things have been good,
and I love living with him. However, I
have begun to notice a few tendencies that
I didn't before. His mother is bi-polar,
and his paternal grandmother is on
anti-depressents. During the winter
months when he isn't working, it seems
that he gets a touch of seasonal
depression. However, it seems to be
getting worse. Not only does he have
symptoms of depression, but he often will
take out his frustration on me. He is not
physically or verbally abusive, but it
seems that I just can't seem to please
him. If he has been mean or negative, it
takes him about 20 minutes to realize how
he has hurt me, and he apoligizes. IT is
obvious that he feels bad. However, it
continously happens. This has only
started the past 2 months. I know the
symptoms of depression, but was just
curious if this negative behavior was part
of depression also?