Broken Hearted Forum - Another 19 year old with no girlfriend ever.

I have really started to realize i am... i dunno... I am 19 years old and never had a girlfriend or anything. In high school I was too shy and never really got connected with anyone aside from the few people i grew up with. Then I left for college and now my friends are all girls, ironic, I know. But the thing is I'm just good friends with them. I have been falling for my best friend here though, and I know she doesn't feel the same for me. It is hard for me, but I don't want to just stop hanging out with her because I really don't have all that many friends here. I have joined student clubs and become really active in some but I don't seem to get any where. My real close 4 friends talk about close to anything around me and they just justify it as "oh it's just 'x'" I dunno how I feel, but I don't like it. I don't think I am very attractive at all. I am extremely fit, but not built. I do have some pimples on my face but not tons. My back is what I feel uncomfortable to the point that I don't want to have my shirt off near people. I have tried a number of things and the dermo told me the next step is accuttain but I don't want to with all its disadvantages. My teeth are not strait and they are yellow, which I have no clue why because I don't smoke, don't drink coffee, and have always brushed my teeth very well. I have tried over the counter whitening but just don't have the money for professional whitening, the other has not worked. I feel like I could just keep going on... Thanks for hearing me ramble on... I'm like a broken record.

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Dianamarie13

replied on February 25th, 2009

New User

Sometimes it takes time

It just takes time, time to get to know people, time for your body to catch up with you, and time before you come into your personality enough that you become attractive to people. The best thing you can do is stay smart (educated so you have something to talk about) and sometime just self-confidence will help you attract someone. Keep your head held high and you will meet someone.

furrytail

replied on March 1st, 2009

Supporter

Brami,
I agree with Dianamarie on this. Your various negatives can all be handled through various means. If accutain is what you need for acne, etc. then perhaps you should look into it. I would suggest that if you have done everything that you can do on your own for your teeth and they are still yellow, go see a dentist as they can provide procedures to whitten the teeth.
You can work to correct this situations, but as mentioned above, you should stay smart and be able to carry on a conversation with a girl.
19 yrs old is awfully young to be losing hope in the dating game. What you need to do is work on your self-esteem and self-confidence (2 things which are very tough for teen and post-teen times in our lives) and the dates will eventually happen.

Wendy

Tarimisu

replied on April 24th, 2009

Experienced User

It's okay. I've never had a boyfriend...although I want one really badly, I just can't seem to get one. I feel unattractive as well.
At least we're in it together, right? Very Happy

ServiceU

replied on May 1st, 2009

Supporter

my African girlfriend told me she peeled an orange and rubbed it on her teeth and her brown tooth went away. use whiting toothpaste. are you brushing 2-3 x's a day. my teeth are dark b/c of coffee.
i m 32 and im battling adult acne what helped me a lot is something called natures cure it's a holistic remedy.
your appearance has nothing to do with it unless your going to a school where every one are drop dead gorgeous.
you will find one when your not looking. your still young try to concentrate on something else.

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