i have a 6 month old baby boy declynn but i am now pregnant again but this time it wasn't consentual sex. and i don't know what to do?! i have only just gone back to school and got comfortable with life again. and i can't have an abortion in my fammily it is forbidden and adoption isn't an option either!!! HELP ME!!!!
you would think that but my parents were both believe that every child exists for a reason and if there wasn't one then it wouldn't of happend. when i first told them i was raped they told me it would be a part of gods big plan...
Sorry but that's hardly the thing you need to be hearing right now.
You need support and not them telling you you have no options but to keep a baby you might not love and end up hating and it's all god's plan.
I believe that things happen for a reason but being raped is because some sick pervert can't get kicks any other way so preys on poor innocent women.
I think if it was me, I would do what I felt was right for me, whether my family agreed with it or not. I'd rather they got mad at me for following my heart than having to have a constant reminder of the rape looking at the baby.
Gods plan does not involve a man forcing himself onto a minor and getting her pregnant. If there is some sort of a "heavenly" father up there in the sky, that's probably the LAST thing he/she would have ever hoped for. If you are capable of birthing not ONE but TWO children, you are more than capable of finding help for yourself and your children. Religion has this way of creating a false sense of hope and security in REAL life situations that can become bad, quick. Providing a strong life and family for these children is a major priority for being a Mother, and it sounds like you know this. You can find help, there are so many resources out there. If you found this forum, you can find help.
Have you been able to decide what yo are going to do? It's so sad that your parents don't take the time to listen to you..I am 27 years old and when I was 21, my parents made me get an abortion when I found out I was pregnant..and then I got cancer. Now, I can't have any children of my own and can't afford to go through the whole private adoption thing.. If you have decided to give your baby up for adoption..please consider talking with me. I have married to my husband for almost 5 years and we have been together since we were 19. We would love to raise a baby..
Please report this rape to the police, not just your parents. Your parents clearly have issues if they think that rape is okay. This needs to be reported to the police immediately! If you are not comfortable talking to the police, tell a teacher or school counselor and they will report it for you, the police will likely come talk to you at school (you will be pulled out of class like you're going to the office so no one will know) so your parents don't need to know immediately.