I was just diagnosed with the same type of tumor (mine is only 5mm). My doctor wasn't forthcoming with information (other than get another ultrasound in 6 months) but I can tell you what I have discovered online. In ultrasound imagery, different types of materials show up either lighter or darker. Objects with a higher fat content, for example, tend to show up as lighter in color. I'm assuming the doctor who read your ultrasound determined, based on the how the image of your tumor appeared on the screen, that the content of the tumor was consistent with a benign tumor, rather than cancer. There are also probably differences in shape, etc., between a angiomyolipoma and a cancerous tumor. From what I've read, these types of tumors can be successfully identified via ultrasound without additional testing.
I will say, however, that from what I've read that tumors larger than 4 cm or ones that have resulted in symptoms (I'm assuming that if they thought you had a gallbladder problem it was because you were experiencing discomfort) are more likely to be removed. This isn't because they are cancerous or will turn cancerous this is in order to eliminate the pain (if it is bothering you enough to want to go through surgery). Also, larger tumors of this type could hemorrhage. Nothing life threatening in that, either, but apparently something to consider. If you're concerned, you could always go for a second opinion (particularly if you wait a while and you're still experiencing pain).
I hope that helps. Good luck and I hope you're feeling better, soon!