There is no direct relationship between an easy pregnancy and a difficult delivery. The best advice I can give is to go to prenatal classes.

Please try not to worry,i had a trouble free pregnancy The weird thing with my first son is i just wasnt scared at all i think its because i didnt know what to expect from the min my waters broke i was sooo excited it was great.Im not going to lie it hurt alot but whilst i was in labour all i kept thinking is this is it hes coming im going to meet him now it was the best feeling in the world and i dont even remeber the pain now only that it hurt i dont remeber how much i just remember him being placed on my chest.There really is no point worrying about this now as its going to happen whether you worry or not so just think of meeting your son/daughter and very soon you'll be counting the days until he/she arrives good luck

Did you use any type of pain reliever, or did you have a natrual pregnancy. How was the pain?

I used gas and air and yes it hurt alot,but you get through it.I can't wait to have this one,the pain is the last thing on my mind im realy looking forward to it although i know when the time comes i will cry in pain lol it really doesnt bother me because it only lasts a few hours and its all done

im so nervous. i handle pain pretty well, but just the energy thats gonna be in the hospital room, its going to be insane. I am so excited! and darkdesire85, im sorry for any trouble that i started with you. im going to also stay away from debated posts like the ones concerning teen pregnancy =]

Its ok marie,its just so frustaighting! lol.You where right though teens don't listen and never will!.im only 24 so i still remember being a teen just about,i guess im just trying to help someone else to avoid a bad situation before its too late,but there really isnt much point as they wont listen!,but i wont help them make what could be a terible mistake and a poor baby suffers because they felt like they were ready when they just were not,but theres no problem between me and you if you need any advice on your pregnancy you know where i am

I didnt have an easy labor, but ill tell you now, even if its scary or hard you can get through it. I had an epidural and was on nuebain or however you spell that. They told me I might need a c-section but luckily i didnt. Being in labor hurts, and its hard but its also a beautiful experience. You just have to remind yourself that this too will pass and you will get a beautiful baby as a reward for all the hard work. All labor is intense and its supposed to be, but the doctors are there to make you as comfortable as possible, but i strongly sugesst sleeping before hand in the early stages, becasuse i didnt and ended up being up for about 30 hours before I had him, I was induced( not in labor for 30 hours, but awake because it was new years day! ), and you will be dead tired afterward if you dont get some sleep. Also, get the epidural, it may sound scary but it really makes you feel a lot less of whats going on. it takes about a half hour to get it including time for the anethesiologist to get in there and explain it, but its worth it. I was in labor 15 hours and really if you have good people in the room entertaining you and helping you relax you will be fine. and remember BREATHE!!! Good luck-- Kyra

Yeh. I understand. I guess trying to help them avoid the mistake wouldnt do any harm, and I guess I was just being naive. and I am sorry. Id love advice from you though =]

Yeah but i see your point too,i dont know these girls and they maybe ready but i guess i dont want to risk helping them and for it to be wrong for them when they've done it,when your a mom you'll always find a way to muddle through lifes problems but its just less stressful for you if you only have to get through the sleepless nights and not sleepless nights plus money troubles and relationship strains,the other thing i found when i had my son was all those people who i thought would help out just didnt i guess they would have if i'd have asked them too but i guess i just felt bad to ask and desperately wanted them to offer lol,When i look back now im not really sure i was expecting my life to change at all i know it sounds stupid i just only saw the goodside so i guess what im trying to do is make sure others know what to expect rather than get a huge shock.Im a pretty strong person so i dealt with it and soon became happy with my new way of life and im pretty sure your the same but not everyone is,sometimes i can be driven by my own beliefs and rush into saying something thats just too harsh and when ive had some time to consider the other persons opinions i can see that we both had a point glad we have come to a friendly conclusion to this

Im just like that. lol. i get to talking before thinking, and say things a little harsh without thinking of the other half. I hope that people offer to help me. They already have, but it would be so hard, a teen with no help, and I understand why you would tell a teen not to. They are giving up their life, to raise another. I understand it is gonna be a buttload of work, and sleepless nights! but yes, i respect your opinion =]