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Q: 17 and 3-5 weeks pregnant
asked by: randomisational on May 5th, 2009
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hi, im 17 years old (18 in 2 and a half months) and i have just found out that Im pregnant. I am quite religious so i dont believe in abortion and i dont think im strong enough to have it adopted. Im really scared, my best friend is also 6weeks pregnant, and i found out last week. i really want to tell my mom, but i just cant because part of me is also ashamed. see i was with this guy for 5months, but he isnt the dad, a few weeks ago, i broke up with my bf, and it lasted a week, but during that week i got drunk one night, and slept with someone else, this person is now my bf, and very happy, he is trying to get a job and a place and said hes not going to leave me. hes great. but im still scared. i dont know what im supposed to do now, and i dont know how everyone will react, moreso to who the dad is. also i live with a mate and i am technically homeless, i have no job or education or money. please help.
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Mabel
replied on May 5th, 2009
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Sounds like you need to find someone you trust who can help you emotionally. You have a lot of issues going on. A new boyfriend, homeless, pregnant at a young age, etc.

Good luck.
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cesarzladie
replied on May 6th, 2009
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just keep your head up and do your best to do everything in your power to move forward. go to GED classes and get a part time job and save up money. you need to tell your mom and hope that she helps you out. i did it when i was 16 yrs old if i can do it so can you!! just dont give up!!
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aochriss
replied on May 6th, 2009
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" im still scared. i dont know what im supposed to do now, and i dont know how everyone will react, moreso to who the dad is. also i live with a mate and i am technically homeless, i have no job or education
or money. please help. "

I would rethink abortion or adoption if I were you. You cannot count on this guy to stick around. This is not a good situation to bring a child into.
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preggie meggie
replied on May 9th, 2009
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Just because he said he isnt leaving...dosn't mean a thing! Just thought I would point that out!
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kyrafaith
replied on May 10th, 2009
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Totally agree with Megan. Guys just say things to make you feel better then at the slightest whim they leave you with their baby never to be heard from again. Every girl thinks their guy is different but its the same story over and over again. Dont trust guys ,they lie.
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