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Bigsmile46
on May 27th, 2009
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Having a Child at 17
I am a grandmother and have had 2 children. I didn't want children at an early age so I didn't have sex. I finally met a guy and had sex but it was protected and when I finally met a guy I thought would be my everything I took birth control. I had my first child at 26 and my second at 32. At that time I was old for being a Mom. Well I have never been sorry. My Sister had a child a 17 years old and stayed happy for a while. I have never wished that I had lived my life more, becaus I did. My Sister is still trying to "grow-up"
Learn to wait. Everything in good time...patience...
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belladonna2010
replied on May 27th, 2009
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Having a child at 17
I believe you should let it rest with God for a while. Babies are a blessing and when they are received it can make your life worth living but its not all laughs and smiles. Think about waking up every three hours during school, think about your child suffering because of the education you missed out on, and I would never tell somebody to listen to what others say but always remember words will be shouted towards you and your child. Love yourself for a while first and then considering lovein your beautiful offspring.
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miss_greeneyes_124
replied on July 15th, 2009
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i want 1 now two everyone always say how muture i am
me and my faince said as soon as he had his house sorted
but rectenly i stoped taking my pill i havent had a peorid in about 2 weeks usally have one as soon as i finsh my pill i no the resabiltys of having a kid this young but i no that his and mine family will help Help me people might think i am stupid but i no you have lots of sleepiness nights dose not bother me my mam always says when i have kids she will look after them like i do 4 her she was 17 nearly 18 when she got pregent then 19 when she had my brother my nana had my mam at 17 i used to look after my nephew from him a day old i always get told how good i am with kids and my fiancé said if i am pregnant he will support me all the way so i belive if your ready for a kid and you no you can afford it go 4 it i mean i dont go drinking wudent want two im always at home
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maybebaby3
replied on July 15th, 2009
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there's no right or wrong time as long as things in your life are stable. no1 can tel u whether u r ready or not 2 b a mum. i had my 1st baby at 28, 2nd at 29 but am friends with a girl who had 1st baby at 18 and has just had another now at age 31. luck and baby dust miss green eyes!
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Kat000123
replied on August 8th, 2009
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BabyHopes 2010 - First of all, you need to get you education. Read your post and look at your spelling and grammar. You are not ready to have a child. Trust me, you don't want to be having the worries of taking care of a child and yourself on a job that barely pays the bills, and that's about all you will get. Even if you did continue in school while you raised a baby, where would the baby go while you are there and at work? Is it really fair to have a child that you have no time with?

I was 18 when I had my son. I can't even begin to tell you the hardship I have been through. There were months I was so poor I had to walk from food bank to food bank just so I could eat. I had to wash all my clothes by hand, ring them by hand and then hang them in my bathroom to dry. I would have bleeding hands by the time I was finished.

I have worked VERY hard since, have finished school and have a decent job, but at what cost? I lost my youth, I couldn't go out with my friends ever so I lost most of them and my son lost time with me that shouldn't have been mine to take from him.There will ALWAYS be a chance for you to have a child, and I am sure you will make a wonderful mother, but if you really love the idea of being a mother than start now by making the best choices for your future children....WAIT.

I have an amazing 8 year old little boy that was 100% worth it, but I put him through a lot while I was forced to grow up. It's just not fair to the child.
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supersexymimi
replied on August 11th, 2009
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you probably should wait....but i sorta going threw the same....
Okay im 18 years old and when i was 14 i had an abortion and every since then my period hasnt been regular....but the past 6 months ive been keeping up with my cycle and it seems like its regular now cause its every 32 days....but my last period was on may 30 2009, and it didnt come on in june but on july 5 it camed on for about 3 days and it wasnt really a period but okay i have taken over 20 pregnacy test and probably 15 of them were postive(my aunt give me the tests before you ask,and i took so many cause my friend has had fake postives test)....so i went to the clinic in my town and they also said i was pregnant when i took the test they gaved me.....but two days later i took another hpt for my mom and it was negative....so i went to the er cause i was sorta hurting and i thought it was the best way to know and quicker way....but i took the blood test and it camed out negative so i didnt push the issue anymore cause i thought it was just in my head...but now its aug and my period hasnt come on and now its five days late....so im thinking am i pregnant...i be sick and tired all of the time...my stomach is getting bigger than normally and its sorta hard plus i have terible headaches...i have a little back pain and side pain and its feel like my stomach be hurting even more but its no sign of any period not even a brownish blood.....i dont know if its in my head or wat???
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rui03
replied on September 9th, 2009
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Re: 17 and wanting a baby
you can have it on the right time
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