My boyfriend and I had sex last week and I had ovulated the day before. We always use condoms and we've never had a problem with them. He never came that day, but I remember he took off his condom and I sat on his lap for a brief moment. He never got inside me but he rubbed against me. I flipped out because I worry a lot. My period should come in about 3 days and I have some PMS symptoms like fatigue and some vaginal discharge, but I heard that those are also common in pregnant women. The discharge is not pinkish or brownish so I don't think it's spotting. Anyway, I talked to him and he told me that Cowper's fluid itself does not contain sperm but that it only expels the leftover sperm from the previous ejaculation. He also told me that he had urinated after his last ejaculation and that that would kill or expel the sperm. I'm still worried. Please tell me if he is right and if there are any signs I should look for.