You poor thing.
I'm kind of in the same boat though I'm about 5 years older.
Are you considering termination or keeping?
Xx.

hey alyssa,
im in close to the same boat. i am 14 and pregnant, but i was raped. But w/e. are you considering adoption, abortion, or keeping it?

My name's Danielle... and wow... I know what your going through... or i least i think i do... its probly just about the same as me except I'm 13. I'll be 14 in a couple weeks but I'm still scared... I mean to be honest I'm kind of excited... I don't know... it's weird. At first the child's father(my boyfriend) wanted me to get an abortion, and although I'm so young I could never, ever do that. I've never believed in abortion... Now that's the last thing on his mind. He said that he was only saying that because he was afraid, and not ready to be a father. He is 17. I told him I wasn't ready to be a mother, but we need to try to get ready because I want to be able to give my child everything I had and more. Although I still may not be ready I have to try to make due, and I want to bring this baby in to the world and be able to give it everything it needs. My boyfriend is supposedly looking for a job, trying to go back t school to get his ged. and all this other stuff, but idk. All I know is that I love him so I'll have to make it through.

All I'm worried about now is my parents.
My mom recently found out I've been having sex. She was not happy at all. My parents are seperated and don't talk much... in fact even when they are "talking" it's still not talking. It's more like arguing. But anyways, my dad doesn't know and I don't plan on letting him now anytime soon... I think my mom know's I'm pregnant... I don't know how but I think she suspects it. She always told me if I got pregnant before 18 I would have to have an abortion or I can't live with her. She was recently diagnosed with Thighroid Cancer, she has surgery October 30(which is the day after my bday). I'm soo afraid... I mean I know she'll make it through... she has to.. we always do but I'm still scared... I can't tell her that I'm pregnant yet... It will cause far to much unessisary stress on her, and if anything were to happen I would blame it upon myslf. I don't think I'd be able to live without her... Lately shes been acting soo psyhco. like she littarly has locked me inside the house after 8 o clock.... it used to be 10... idk... u would have t know my mother and I to understand it all but shes putting stress on me, so does my boyfriend and all this other thing... Im afraid... I heard stress and everything could lead to a miscarriage or affect your child later on. I don't want that, but idk... i really just dont know...

first off, tell your mother. you need to go see a doctor, get your prenatal vitamins, and truely, its the right thing to do. she will be mad, but she has a certain right to be. Just tell her.

Hello,

My husband and I are looking to adopt, if you are intersted in adoption it would mean the world to us. We are not able to have babies of our own. We are 21 and 24 years old and own our own house. He has a stable job in the Military. Is anyone intersted in adoption?

i was sexually abused as a child and ended up becoming sexually active (my choice) at a young age i guess im asking if you are in the same boat

If anyone is interested in adoption you can write me.And please don't consider abortion. wipe that from your thoughts because a child always deserves life. I was sexually abused at 15 and had a pregnancy scare from that, and if I had been pregnant I would never have been able to think about abortion. I'm here for anyone who needs or wants to chat privately. Just write me.

hi. im 13 and already got pregnant. please dont think of abortion because i already did it. i regreted for it until now dont think abortion as a good idea. you must do is look for a couple that wants a baby and love it or just keep it and take care of it and be a good mother. just i told you abortion is not the answer for your problem.


THANKS
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..yani