i'd get rid of that "best friend" of mine for sure...bc thats in the unspoken rule book..a friend does NOT go after another friends man even if they are broken up especially if she still knows her friend still has a thing for him...this isn't someone to be around, I really dont know what to tell you in this situation...he doesn't know how to end things with her? why not? if it isn't working out it isn't working out...tell her that..the end...guys will say alot..if he doesnt have you some sort of ring then dont get your hopes up, he's probably just really confused and scared right now as are you..i'm sure this is a very tough situation to be in, i can't imagine being pregnant that young....just keep your head up and hopefully things will work out with the two of you

I agree. It is very rude and inconsiderate that your "best friend" would date your boyfriend when you are pregnant with his child and had literally JUST broken up. Things are going to be rough. Forgive him if it's in your heart and you believe it's whats right, but please be careful. If he did this to you once, there is always the chance that it will happen again. He is probably really lost and scared about having a child while still technically being a child. It's hard knowing that in a few months that your life is dedicated to someone else for the rest of your life whether you like it or not. Stay strong. I'm sure you will make an absolutely wonderful mother when your child arrives, and it'd be great to have him by your side through this but if he's too immature to stick with you and keeps on playing with your feelings, I know you'd be an amazing single mother too. You have shown your strength in writing this post and I know you can do it no matter what happens. Good luck. Keep us updated!

Best Friend my ***............do not waste your breath on this person anymore. And, if your so called boyfriend isn't man enough to stand up to her...this should tell you somethig as well. If yo uboth plan to be together and raise this baby the way it is supposed to be raised, this so called best friend needs to be HISTORY.......end of story. Why does there have to be a nice way to END things? Its obvious she has already liesd and tried to manipulate things.............Fess up.....I hope for this baby's sake you and your boyfriend work things out. Games are for kids..........you're playing inthe big league now!

Thank you for all of your replies to this.... I had left something out earlier to get an answer better... The dad is 19 years old and wants to be with me more than anything he says and wants me and the baby to move in with him as soon as he gets his own plzce and everything like that... He really is a great guy and everything... I know that he will make a great dad come January.... Can you tell me one other thing???? That is I blew up on her and told her everything and she has a 23 month old like I said and started to cut herself when I told her and said she will die before she loses him... Am I still doing the right thing with trying to be with him???? I mean I don't want nothing to happen to Miley(the baby) or to her.... Also Cory (the dad of mine) told me that he should pick the ring up tomorrow and be able to give it to me the next time that we see eachother.... Am I really wrong here I am confused and really don't know if he is playing with my head or not any advice on this stuff would also be greatly appreciated....

Thank you

You are 15 years old/young. I could not imagine having a child at 15, let alone sex. Sorry, I am quiet a bit older, but the more wiser. I do have a daughter and I am saying to you the same thing I'd say to her. I'd call Family and Childrens Services on this "other Mother' who is cutting herself. This is ABUSE. Not only on her self but her 23 month old. She is UNSTABLE..............she needs PROFESSIONAL help. As for you.......guys play head games....and they will tell you what you want to hear as long as you allow them to treat you in a certain way. Where are your parents? Are you not living at home? Surely you have someone you can talk too? Are you not going to finish school so that you can learn a trade and provide a good environment for this baby? I am so lost here.............kids 15 years YOUNG having babies and no job, no home, not even sure of a boyfriend???????

I made a typing mistake the baby is only 2 months old not 23.... Yes I am living at home for the time being I am trying to get a job as we speak and am trying to get either ammanicpiated or wait until I turn 16 and he siad that we can get married providing the courts will let us it is possible I ting a place right now as we speak... I love him with all of my heart but I am just so scared that he is just playing games wiht my head likehe has before and like every other person that I even start to trust... I just don't know what 2 do and I am starting to think that he is only with me because I am pregnant but he say that is not the reason at all... for over a year now every time he gets in a relationship and they start to get serious he always comes back to me and what not like that Always.... Even before I ended up pregnant so there is a chance that maybe just maybe he loves me like he says he does.... Any advice on that part....


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Aubrey

He does keep running back to you because you ALLOW it. You are kinda like a springboard. WHen a relationship goes bad for him, he knows he can come crawling back to you for comfort. I am NOT saying he doesn't love you or have feelings for you. I know LOVE SUX.....not really, it does hurt. I've been there a zillion time. Its a wonder I have a heart left, it was broken so many times.........You are worth far more than just a springboard. I'm not sure what to tell you, I do know you need to somehow gain his trust. He has done this to you SO MANY times.....how long before he does it again? I for one, do hope he MAN'S up and does the right thing. He needs to prove to you that its YOU thats most important to him. If you marry him, things are not going to change. I would first let him know he has to prove to you its you he loves and not just gonna marry you because you are pregnant. I am not going oto sugar coat things and tell you what you WANT to hear.I am telling you the GOSH awful truth cause I think you and this baby deserve only the best..............not second fiddle! What do your parents think? YOu do have to consider the fact, you very well could be a single Mother. Sure he will have to pay child support..........but there is always the possibility. Aubrey, I wish I were there to wrap my wings around you and tell you things are gonna be just peachy....but I can't be. I can tell you what I feel is honest. I can be here if you ever need me. You also may PM me at anytime. HUGS!!!!!