I hope you find him hun. I was so scared but hes been there for me in so many ways since things ended with my babys dad and it is the cutest thing the way he likes to put his head on my belly and feel the baby kick or hell like poke me and say hes playing with the baby. I still think its funny because the baby kicks so much and then the one time Ive seen the babys dad since all this happened the baby stopped so abruptly i thought something happened and then its dad left and i called my boyfriend and the baby started kicking again as soon as he answered. I really think that my baby likes him as much as I do. Like it knows that hes going to be there for us and everything. I love that he talks about everything with me that the babys dad doesnt do. Me and MAtt even named the baby together. It might not be his but hes going to be a great dad either way. I hope you have as much luck as I did amethyst, there are so many great guys out there and I know youll find one that loves your baby as much as matt loves mine.

Yeah, well I haven't seen him since like 14 weeks, and he never talks to me or anything. I've moved on but it would be so much nicer to have a guy to enjoy this with me.

My babys dad and i broke up when i was like 3 months along. and ive only seen him once and it was not worth it

mine left me at 5 weeks, and the day before leaving me he had told me he loved me and all that, it was just a bunch of crap. Then he denied it and his family investigated me. Then He called me drunk and then he called me a few months later accusing me of crap, and then that was it. I just can't get over how petty and retarded guys can be, its nice to know their are some good guys out there.

i know what you mean. Guys just don't get it a lot of the times. I used to think that he wanted to be with me and everything would be ok if we had this baby, but now i realize that I was totally wrong. The only regret i have with this baby is that its not matts because i mean hes been here for me even when i got kicked out of my house, and in my mind thats the way a dad should act. I feel guilty when we talk about the future sometimes because i know that hes going to end up taking care of a child that isnt his and hes only 22.

well as I see it, he'll be your baby's daddy still, maybe not biologically, but he will be there.

i hope so... i really really care about him so much. hes the only person in my whole life that has treated me like this.

I can't believe he's keeping your stuff, that's criminal. I also love how he thinks he can just walk away from something he helped cause, namely your pregnancy.

I agree with you, about the new guy, being someone you'd rather be with.

wow the person above me has no heart..i would NEVER abort my child, its a part of me and whether or not the real father gives a crap about me or the baby, i love it completely. my child is my life, and you know what i think of you from the message i sent you.