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21 and never masterbated

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Hi, i'm a 21 year old male. I have never masterbated but i have pretty regular sex (maybe once a month roughly, usually one-night stands). Living with the guys i live with in college and hearing how much they masterbate really shocked me and made me feel weird for never doing it. I do watch porn sometimes and just get a boner and nothing more. Anytime I try to "jerk off" i just dont like the feeling of doing it, the skin on my penis is pretty tight and there is little up and down motion when I try it do it, maybe because i'm circumcised? I once tried lotion but my mind just wonders watching porn and I go soft.

Anyway most searches on the internet have pointed to a low sex drive or asexuality but i really don't buy that as I really do enjoy seeking sexual partners and spend alot of time thinking abouts girls ( sexually, trying best not to sound like a perv, just trying to get point across that I am a red-blooded male!).

What does anyone think? Anyone feel the same?
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replied December 22nd, 2009
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Any issues sleeping? Any problems with moodswings? Is your appetite irregular or do you have any sensation of being too hot or cold given your environment? Anything else going on with your health that seems suspcious?
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replied July 28th, 2010
Totally with you there. Here I thought I was alone!
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replied July 28th, 2010
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Masterbation is ok.. not doing it is better! Smile
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