I have been in a commited relation ship for about 9 months. Until about 3 weeks ago we had an Ideal sex life, 3 or 4 times a day at least, 3 days a week sometimes more sometimes less. Now we havent done anything for 3 weeks. At first both times it has happened I was exhausted (awake more than 24hrs). Now its just not working when we want to have sex. Everything works fine if I'm alone, you know, and when we are making out its all good, But when I get the condom and start its gone. My libido has crashed and when every we start make out I start to get really nervous. I think I have just psyched myself out, but now I don't know how to fix it and it is starting to affect our relationship. Any help would be great?