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Q: 14 and might be pregnant
asked by: SammielovesWayne on March 8th, 2009
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Well I'm 14 years old and i had ex with out condom and im not on any thign to povent getting pregant and the guy went in me i didetn stop him cuz he asked me to marry him a few weeks befor and i said yes and we was plainng the weeding and every thing we allmost had it done when he got scared and backed out of it alland we broke up and nnow I havent had period seence the 1st of last mounth and i should of done started by now i should of started the last part of last or the 1st of this mounth and i dident and im so scared i dont want to tell my mom or him what should i do i went though this with my older sister and i seen what she went though and i dont want to go though it the only on e that knows that i could be is my older sister and she ahs a kid and one on the way and she is only 17 but now she is married and happy as can be with that life but im only 14 idk what i want now that me and my boyfrend anit together what do i do should i tell them OH plus my ex is now 19 years old and has a job and stuff should i tell him or jus wait or should i tell my mom i took 3 pee test and all came back negetive but one and its the on that tell u like 5 days befor ur missed period or somethign liek that and it came back that iw as and now idk what to do can any one help me out here
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kerryn
replied on March 8th, 2009
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if you got a positive test, you are most likely pregnant. it is very rare to get a false positive, but very common to get a false negative. You need to tell your mum as soon as possible because you need to talk with her about what you are going to do, and start taking care of yourself so that you dont become ill. Maybe tell your sister you got a positive and take her when you tell your mum.
Good luck.
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HayasakaErika
replied on March 10th, 2009
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I would speak with your sister first. She has been through all of this before and will be able to help you.
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morganlee_06
replied on March 10th, 2009
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it sounds like u r but if u r its gods plan. i got prego at 17 and scared to death what my mom and dad would think but it turned out good. i really hope the best for u. let us know if u r or not.
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smexysnickers
replied on March 11th, 2009
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did
u find out if you were
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cantiffviesan
replied on March 17th, 2009
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im sorry ur going through this so early
u r probably pregnant. it's normal 4 u to freak out baby, ur only human. u have 2 tell mom like right away. once u do that whether mom agrees on it or not, u will feel less stressed. when ur pregnant the less stress the better.14 is different from 17 cause its almost legal 2 work and start planning adulthood. at 14 u've got more 2 think about, like finishing school and being a kid alittle longer. if u guys all decide 2 have it and every1 will give u the support then that's ok. but baby, if there is no support from the guy, his parents or ur family then please think this through because ur so young and have 2 much ahead of u. i had my 1st child at 17 turning 18 the following month. and i'm the one of the best mommys i know. lol my daughter tells me all the time. so dont think just cause u'll be young u wont be a good mom. but remember, financially it's a bit of a struggle. so think things through. please write when u figure everything out. good luck and i hope i help.
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