I am 21 years old and i am a mess all around when it comes to sex.....i have a child and since i had her i don't even want to have sex...EVER! my boyfriend of 3 years and i maybe have sex once a month and i have to force myself into that....and when we do have sex i dont feel ANYTHING i have never been able to feel anything during intercourse long before him...it just feels numb, ive never had an orgasm during intercourse...is there anything i can do to fix this?
There are many reasons for decreased libido as physical muscle or joint pain,anxiety,hormonal changes due to breast feeding,drug reactions,stress etc.
Are you feeling this recently after child birth?
You need a proper hormonal evaluation and examination.Kindly see a Physician for evaluation.
Hi war093009...Before you had the baby or even before with other partners, did they stir you with want with foreplay...To want sex you must have the want of filling...It is like you need this place within you completed...However, you must be stimulated enough to have this happen...A wonderful way to do this is to have your boyfriend stimulating or sucking your breasts and fingering you at the same time...You must learn to relax and give of your sexual side...Don't try and please him at the same time, let this be a you thing...Let the wild woman inside you loose...Honey, yours is the problem of many....Take care...
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