hey, im a 24 year old male, and i love to lick a girl's ass during sex...most girls that ive tried this with for their first time instantly fell in love with it, and this girl that i talk to on and off...we tried it for the first time the other night while we were intoxicated. when she is sober, she thinks that it is gross and that im tasting her "poop", but whenever we're drunk she begs me to do it. is there a way to ease her awkwardness while sober, or should i just leave it to happening when we're under the influence, and also do other women here like having a guy lick their ass, or do you think its gross as well?
I worry about the transfer of any bacteria into your mouth or into her vagina if you go from licking the anus to licking the genitals/ vaginal canal. (I am assuming that she has not cleansed herself internally and externally. In any case, an enema will not cleanse the anus of ALL of its bacteria.)
Not to mention, I have no problem with kissing a man after he performs oral sex on me. In fact, I kind of find it a turn on to taste myself on his lips. But in this case, I would not be willing to kiss him. This would really mess up the entire sex act if I could not kiss him for the rest of the foreplay/ sex.
As for the woman you are seeing, there are certain things that most people are uncomfortable with in bed that they are more likely to allow or do when intoxicated. I don't believe that you can get her to allow this sex act while sober by trying to talk her into it. Perhaps in time, as you do it more and more, she will be more willing to allow it when she is sober.
Finally, just out of curiosity, are you into analingus because you would like to be rimmed as well or do you simply enjoy performing the act on another?
i have no interest in being rimmed, its just something i like to do to the woman, i think its because i love a woman with a nice bum. doesnt need to be big, it just has to be smooth and nice. im the same way with a woman's feet as well. a girl has to have pretty feet or its just a turn off for me, i also like to suck on toes...lol! i guess im just a freak, but i like to try new things to an extent. haha! but, thank you for your input, it was appreciated.
I personally find the act of rimming a woman to be very exilerating. There of course has to be a certain level of cleanliness involved, that I think goes without saying. As far as bacteria is concerned, I uses some common sense and avoid potentially hazardous situations so to speak (i wil leave it at that), but of course, only a true fool would believe that there is no risk involved. To answer the above question, yes, I personally also enjoy being rimmed myself, but often, performing this little ritual on a young lady provides an all-together different asthetic and mental stimulation. Therefore I would find it hard to bridge the gap between act and motivation, by saying that I do it simply because I wish to experience it myself. Coincidentaly though, there are many times that I will desire to have this act performed on me, primariy because the act itself puts the idea in my head. So conversely, I have spoken myself into a bit of a circle it seems...lol. We are after-all complex creatures it seems.
I performed analingus for the first time years ago on a young Japanese girl in Yokohama, Japan right after we had shared a hot bath. She was in bed on her stomach and I was kissing her smooth and beautiful buttocks when, on a lark, I parted her buttocks and kissed her on the anus. Rather than being disturbed she responded by moaning and pushing her bottom back into my face. I rimmed her for a while, much to her obvious pleasure, and was so aroused by the act myself that I had an orgasm with no stimulation of my penis. That has been part of my sexual repertoire ever since and I have never met a woman who didn't love it, or at least tolerate it.