As anyone will tell you, from a doctor to a homosexual, the anus is used for the elimination of wastes...it is a one way street. It is very easy to get damaged there, and I would see a doctor if I were you. It's nothing to joke about.

I absolutly agree, u can develop anal fissures, tiny tears, that are very painful and take along time to to heal. They are pure misery, so stop while you can!
I would suggest you see a gastroenterologist(GI) or your family doctor, to get a proper opinion

Speaking along these lines, you must also be careful during Doggy Sex...I have found that unless I am in the right position that the area above the anus can split and get sore....We are not doing ANAL sex nor do this act....However, even this position can get darn sore...My best advice is to angle yourself right...For us this means that having him stand at the foot of the bed with me kneeling on the end of the bed with my butt facing him....Who knows, maybe it's a position best suited for the "older generation"...

Caroline

1)Stop anal sex 2) if you like it, buy a proper lube, anal lube. In your case if you have a tear in there, buy Balneol and use it every time you go to the bathroom.

Hey Caroline, i hear you, i mean our generation never even thought of this. Bottom line you need a caring and compassionate lover, whom thinks about whats best for both of you.

Hi again Wanda: I am going to rephrase this as I wasn't real clear in my response...You are so right about our generation never hearing of this...When I first approached my husband about trying it out, he thought I was two bricks short of a full load...This was three years ago...I had seen some people talk about this on a forum where I was just learning the facts of life and saying how fantastic it was....So knowing me, I had to see what I was missing...When I convinced my husband (under protest) to give it a try, he tried and I yelled...It hurt like heck...We didn't get it in far, but it was far enough.. ..All I can say is more power to the person that loves it...Not me...I love doggy, but that's where we draw the line...This may be great for other people, but what we do is the best for us...

Take care,

Caroline

Hi Caroline,
I meantioned early in our relationship 28 years ago, and my boy friend at the time, just looked at me and said, "NO!I like your female parts, thats exit only , i laughed ( u have to remember we were like younger )but you can give me one of your great back rubs instead! LOL, i am still giving those back rubs, now 28 years later, i realize what a prize i have in a bff and a husband WE believe that sex should benefit both partners and not just pleasuring one..right..thats a forever relationship. The doggie position is the best position for the g-spot ladies.

Take care Wanda

I agree about the doggie position... but sometimes it does hurt me a little if my bf goes all the way in..but overall its amazing..Jenny