My husband and I were having a great night of vigorous sex. He began to stimulate my anus with his finger, there was penetration of the finger. Soon thereafter, we noticed a fairly large blood spot on the sheet. After much examination of each of us, we think the blood came from my anus. There was no pain at the time and I didn't even realize that I had bled. The blood was very bright red and I am assuming from the information I have found on the internet that I may have a tear in the wall of my rectum.
My question is how do I proceed from here. I REALLY do not want to go see my normal doctor about this!!! My rectum feels slightly sore today but nothing I would say that is unusual after a good night of sex for us. When and if it becomes necessary to see a doctor, who should I see? What should I look for if there is any problems?