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The best way to cleanse yourself for anal sex is to give yourself an enema. They can be purchased at the drug store/ phramacy/ chemist or the health and beauty section of any department store.
You could certainly clean yourself manually using just your fingers and soap but understandably some folks may not be comfortable with the idea. An Enema would leave you cleaner and you could flush with a lubricant to pre-lubricate your rectal walls.
thanx for ur quick replys...
im a little bit ashame to go to the pharmecy and buy enema honestly i dont know if we have it in our country,im from the middle east,by the way is enema used to athor stuff??or just to clean up the anus for anal sex??
dear wolf i've tried manually cleaning by finger i add liquid soap to my finger and then put it in and then out,
but how can i know if its clean i feel there will still be stuff inside u know what i mean...
Unfortunately there is no magical trick to manually cleaning yourself. You don't get the flushing you would from an emema so there is a limit of how clean you can make yourself. Be thorough, use a removable shower head if you have one to irrigate the bowel as best you can.
Enemas are used for a variety of reasons, some theraputic but all of them involving the anus so generally none are any less embarassing than the other. It's my hope that no drug store opperator would embarass one of their customers for buying a product they themselves put on their shelves but your world is very different than mine. I just took websearch and found a few online stores that sell enemas so that may be an option for you as well.
Yes it's ok. It's likely better if you're having protected anal sex with a partner. Not only does it lower the risk of disease by it simplifies hygene. If you and your partner are having unprotected anal sex then it's not a health danger for him to ejaculate. The semen is either absorbed through the tissue of the rectal wall or ejected with your stool when you go to the bathroom.
If he is healthy, it is ok. It does not go further inside but it will come right out again. It will start to ooze out immediately and guaranteed with your next bowel movement.
You can only get pregnant from ejaculation inside your vagina. There is no way the sperm can get out of your rectum to your fallopian tubes without coming out, drip into your vulva, find your vaginal opening, going up your vagina and enter your cervix and uterus. This trip is highly unlikely.
Remember that nothing that touched your anus should come close to your vulva/vagina. Thet goes for fingers, toys, penises, condoms and fluids. It is also recommended that he wears a condom when enjoying anal sex to protect you both from possible health problems.
I am sure you know the rest, take it slow, use lots of lube, take it slow, be careful.