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tell me about anal sex.
i know the dangers but i want to know.
how many people like or hate it and should i do it.
and stuff about it.
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replied August 5th, 2008
I think I posted on your other one but whatever, lol.
If you and your boyfriend are the experimenting types, like if you want to try something new, then go for it! But only do it if you want to, and if your comfortable. You need to relax for it to feel good, and for some people it just doesn't.
It's like, I don't know. Different? Either you like it or you don't. It's not my preference, haha.
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replied August 5th, 2008
well i dont think its a good idea. its to hard to relax enough for it to feel good but hey if you wanna do it go for but if you dont want to then dont do it plus why would you want to hurt yourself. if my man cant be happy with what i give him he can take a hike. dont do it because someone else wants you to do it for you if you want to .
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replied August 6th, 2008
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i actually like it and it feels really good if i masturbate while doing it =]
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replied August 11th, 2008
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I second Pink_highlighter on that, I like masturbating with the vibrator while having anal sex it feels good. Just be sure to use lots of lubricant. Take it slow at first and ease in to it.
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replied February 25th, 2009
i want anal sex but girlfriend dosent
Since i started my 5 year relationship with my girlfried, i have always fantisied about anal sex. We have sex around 3 times a week, i always try and play with her ass when going down on her, she never says anything and lets me, when i suggest anal sex she says straight away no im not that kind of girl. What am i meant to do. I watch porn all the time and it always includes anal. I say to my girlfirend that she will love it and just give it a try. What shall i do??
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replied February 26th, 2009
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Re: i want anal sex but girlfriend dosent
lodge wrote:
Since i started my 5 year relationship with my girlfried, i have always fantisied about anal sex. We have sex around 3 times a week, i always try and play with her ass when going down on her, she never says anything and lets me, when i suggest anal sex she says straight away no im not that kind of girl. What am i meant to do. I watch porn all the time and it always includes anal. I say to my girlfirend that she will love it and just give it a try. What shall i do??


Hi...you can't force your girlfriend to try it some woman find the idea very scary...and it does hurt...If she doesn't want to then i think your just gonna have to accept it!....you could always try explaining to her how much it means to you that might work? Good luck Jenny
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replied February 26th, 2009
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Well i do like it myself...although it does hurt at first until you are relaxed with it in....If you take it slow first it's ok....Jenny
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replied February 26th, 2009
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NightStar wrote:
I second Pink_highlighter on that, I like masturbating with the vibrator while having anal sex it feels good. Just be sure to use lots of lubricant. Take it slow at first and ease in to it.


I third...just have fun with it. Offer her to try it and let her know that you can stop anytime. It took me and my hubby more than a few trys and some funny moments...lol.

Relax and go slow. Maybe ask if you could start with your fingers or a toy so she can get to know how HER muscles and how her body reacts to something going in. Thats where the work comes in. She can control her muscles once she is aware of them. Its a mental thing, and you cant just put it in like the vagina...you have to work at it.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I also love anal sex, but it does take some getting used to and you must have lubrication. I also fourth Pink_highlighter on the masturbation while doing it as this really feels good.

Wendy
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I enjoy it when its in, but the process of getting it in always scares me. Its weird cuz i know it will feel good once in but yeah...i dunno.
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replied March 1st, 2009
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I agree with saragirl..
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replied July 22nd, 2009
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I agree with Pink_highlighter. I love anal, and masturbating just intensifies it. If you want to really go for intense try using a vibrator or dildo in your vagina at the same time. Double penetration is a mind blowing experience.
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replied July 31st, 2009
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I am a male and I bought a 4" vibrator to use in my woman's anal while I uses my 5 1/2" penis in her vagina. Just like peta4032 says" double penetration is a mind blowing experience (to the woman), and since my penis is of a small size(5 1/2" erect), I can change locations, putting my penis in her anal, and the vip. in her vagina, she loves the feeling that I give her from the two small tools I have to offer her. We make sure that I wash my penis and the vibrator as I changes from anal to vagina to avoid infections!!
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replied August 5th, 2009
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Speaking of Lube, what would you recommend. We "connect" often and don't use anything for straight sex but now she wants me to do her in the ass. Talk about being a lucky guy. Also in regard to the infection thing, what are you folks doing, condoms, or is there a disinfectant lube?
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replied August 5th, 2009
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I am inquisitive?...Why are you considering yourself a lucky guy because she wants it in the ass?...Is this some special place that all guys strive for?....
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replied August 6th, 2009
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Better keep urself away from it! its sometimes dangerous and bring more trouble than fun.

why should u use ur anus when God gave u the right THING!
LOL
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replied August 13th, 2009
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ayurcliniq_munnar wrote:
Better keep urself away from it! its sometimes dangerous and bring more trouble than fun.

why should u use ur anus when God gave u the right THING!
LOL


sure there are dangers with anal sex. There are also dangers with vaginal and oral sex. If done right, with the right person, right mood, right time, right whatever, anal can be incredible.

As to why would you have anal sex when "god" gave you the right thing... it's like asking why should you perform oral sex when "god" gave you the right thing.
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replied August 13th, 2009
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lol!
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replied September 19th, 2009
Anal sex is actually really fun, if your relaxed enough. Make sure your not stressed when you do though! Don't forget the lube
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