Hi, I haven't been on here in awhile, but
I figured this would be the best place to
ask advice on this sort of thing.
Recently, I started to attempt
masturbating anally and so far I have not
been able to reach orgasm this way. Going
about it, I've tried to be as safe and
cleanly as possible: I've washed the area
before and after, I've used a lubricated
condom on my fingers for access, and I'm
always sure to stop or slow down if
anything begins to hurt.
At the beginning, even before "entry", it
was very arousing feeling around the anus,
but as I went on to insert my fingers I
lost erection. Inside, I initially tried
to go slowly and gently , moving my finger
back and forth and searching for the
prostate, which to my understanding is the
male "G spot". As that did nothing for me,
I began to move faster which to my
surprise gave me another erection. But
that went soon went away as well. I
continued this for awhile, and tried to
fantasize of various things while doing
so, but still nothing.
I was just wondering if anyone could help
me figure out how to have a satisfying
session of anal masturbation. What am I
doing wrong?