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Q: Anal Fingering
asked by: Martha2008 on June 5th, 2008
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My boyfriend likes to finger me in the anus and in the vagina at the same time... I enjoy it but I think I would like it tons more when someone tells me this is normal and there is nothing wrong with it... Embarassed
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flipper
replied on June 5th, 2008
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Sounds normal to me. Some love it, some don't- same as everything really. I think anything that feels good to you is okay. Smile
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worrywart01
replied on June 5th, 2008
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agreed with flipper
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antigone
replied on June 5th, 2008
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Ditto.
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beachgenie
replied on June 5th, 2008
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anal fingering
same here. somehow the contractions add a whole new dimension to the pleasure. Those are the best orgasms to me, fingering if finessed properly, starting around the SI area where all the nerves start, sliding gradually down the crack, making use of the available fluids, then slipping in from the vaginal side, which already stimulated is the more natural entrance route. Adding to your aroused state, why not see if clitoral stim. is simultaneously possible. For ex. does his pubic bone happen to align with your clitorus? (Coital alignment Technique - CAT)

Anyway, is this wrong? Absolutely, in our guilt-basaed society maybe! WHO CARES! Seek total pleasure; you're only here for awhile.
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ilovesunsets
replied on June 12th, 2008
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I love to finger and even lick my partner's pink anus but she would never let me. Been trying for years now. I love to lick her vagina occasionally try to go further south during her second orgasm, hoping she would loose control and let me do it but no such luck. I began to wonder if someone likes it...glad to know someone out there does - makes me feel less weird. Come to think of it, it has just made me hornier. I've even had wet dreams of doing it to her...but dreaming seems as far as I'll get.
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2eatoria
replied on June 15th, 2008
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If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad. Make sure he trims his fingernails so he doesn't cut you, and lube is helpful. We've actually found that raw fingers are more likely to cause irritation than fingers covered in latex or vinyl gloves. Seems to be something with the natural salts and oils on skin.

And when I say "we" I mean both of us like having fingers up our respective butts.

No, I don't think you're any kind of freak at all. She likes it with one up her bung, one in her vagina, and a thumb pushing her labia against her clitoris, and gently rolling it kind of from the side like. (Direct clitoral stimulation is often too much for her.)

Season to suit your own taste. You know what feels good, because you're in there. Just tell him, and he's sure to accommodate. Especially if you reciprocate. Very Happy
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lil_mommy_2007
replied on June 18th, 2008
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I love the whole anal fingering and sex. Theres even times when he will go farther south when he suppose yo be licking my vigina.
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azra1234
replied on August 4th, 2009
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I am female and also love anal stimulation. Makes me orgasm faster.
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susan862003
replied on August 4th, 2009
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Just make sure that anal finger does not go north to the vagina without being washed first. It can cause a nasty infection. The rectum is not the cleanest of places.

Enjoy.
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