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My boyfriend likes to finger me in the anus and in the vagina at the same time... I enjoy it but I think I would like it tons more when someone tells me this is normal and there is nothing wrong with it... Embarassed
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replied June 5th, 2008
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Sounds normal to me. Some love it, some don't- same as everything really. I think anything that feels good to you is okay. Smile
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replied June 5th, 2008
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agreed with flipper
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replied June 5th, 2008
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Ditto.
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replied June 5th, 2008
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same here. somehow the contractions add a whole new dimension to the pleasure. Those are the best orgasms to me, fingering if finessed properly, starting around the SI area where all the nerves start, sliding gradually down the crack, making use of the available fluids, then slipping in from the vaginal side, which already stimulated is the more natural entrance route. Adding to your aroused state, why not see if clitoral stim. is simultaneously possible. For ex. does his pubic bone happen to align with your clitorus? (Coital alignment Technique - CAT)

Anyway, is this wrong? Absolutely, in our guilt-basaed society maybe! WHO CARES! Seek total pleasure; you're only here for awhile.
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replied June 12th, 2008
I love to finger and even lick my partner's pink anus but she would never let me. Been trying for years now. I love to lick her !**@! occasionally try to go further south during her second orgasm, hoping she would loose control and let me do it but no such luck. I began to wonder if someone likes it...glad to know someone out there does - makes me feel less weird. Come to think of it, it has just made me hornier. I've even had wet dreams of doing it to her...but dreaming seems as far as I'll get.
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replied June 15th, 2008
If it makes you happy, it can't be that bad. Make sure he trims his fingernails so he doesn't cut you, and lube is helpful. We've actually found that raw fingers are more likely to cause irritation than fingers covered in latex or vinyl gloves. Seems to be something with the natural salts and oils on skin.

And when I say "we" I mean both of us like having fingers up our respective butts.

No, I don't think you're any kind of freak at all. She likes it with one up her bung, one in her vagina, and a thumb pushing her labia against her clitoris, and gently rolling it kind of from the side like. (Direct clitoral stimulation is often too much for her.)

Season to suit your own taste. You know what feels good, because you're in there. Just tell him, and he's sure to accommodate. Especially if you reciprocate. Very Happy
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replied June 18th, 2008
I love the whole anal fingering and sex. Theres even times when he will go farther south when he suppose yo be licking my vigina.
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replied August 4th, 2009
I am female and also love anal stimulation. Makes me orgasm faster.
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replied August 4th, 2009
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Just make sure that anal finger does not go north to the vagina without being washed first. It can cause a nasty infection. The rectum is not the cleanest of places.

Enjoy.
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replied July 11th, 2012
so, my boyfriend has started fingering my anal, and i love it. after one night though, i started to have diarreah.. i get it everyday now, and for some reason it looks like there like reddish white gew ? i dont know
sounds gross, but i dont know whats wrong can anybody help !
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replied July 11th, 2012
I am married now,when I read this I was thinking about the past.It was part of making love for me.Timing is important.It is always such a turn on to see a woman from behind,it is a visual thing to see the virgina and anus .I see on porn movies now they think nothing of licking the anal orifice .The only time to do that would be after a shower or a bath.Clean sex is the best sex I think I have been told I have bigger then usual fingers though.One woman told me they are like little sausages.I used usual slang names to describe our privates but got a warning so I had to change them.Does it sound gross to use another name to describe a Virgina or penis
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