This is new to me but I need to ask someone. I have been married for 20 some years and I love my wife totally. She is everything to me and the perfect woman as far as I'm concern. She is my best friend and we use to talk about everything and do stuff together all the time. We both have made mistakes in the past, that is part of life. But for the past 2 years she has shut me out of her life, she won't talk to me about things and basically has run me down on everything. She has a special ability to get people to open up to her and she has the ability to comfort them when they are upset. I have seen her help kids to adults get through ruff times. She spends all time on her lap top talking to people from all over. I quit asking her cause she won't tell me nothing. But the other night the phone rang at 11:30 at night and it was a older man. When I asked she said it was a friend. Yes we got into a fight. She then told me it was a husband of a woman that she talked to that died. This man lost his wife and somewhere along the time span he lost a son also and she has been helping him get over the rough times. She said he does not live in this country. I don't want to know what they talk about but is it wrong of me to want to know what she is doing. I mean she has not told me that she loves me for over 2 years but still cares. When she is not working she is home so no she is not going out or seeing anybody. But it still is upsetting to me that she can't confide in me anymore and does not thing I would understand. I don't know if she just don't care anymore or if it may be the change of life cause she is going through that. I know for myself I have realized a lot of things that I have done wrong over the years, but I never stopped loving her and trying to show her. Am I wrong for wanting to know what she is doing or who she is talking to. I have never hide anything from her since we have been together.