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Q: Am I Pregnant at 14 ?
asked by: jem94 on June 2nd, 2008
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Okay so i'm 14 and i had sex about 3 days ago he didnt have a condom on and he said he cum, cause he forgot 2 pull out. Now i'm worried i'm pregnant im not sure what to do. I know ill what to keep it if i am and i know its a big resposability the dad well i dont know what he'll do. But i know he doesnt want to be a dad at this age hes only 14 too. What should i do. I mean i dont know if i am pregnant yet but if i am.. what should i do?
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Mabel
replied on June 2nd, 2008
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You should relax and not worry about it until you miss your period.

Do not EVER have sex with ANYONE without a condom. Condoms are free at family planning centers (Planned Parenthood).

How would you financially support a child? Do your parents know you are sexually active? If you think you are pregnant you should discuss it with them.
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krystineM
replied on June 2nd, 2008
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my question is exactaly like Ingi's.
How can a 14 year old raise a child? You dont have a job, no financial stability, your parents provide everything for you, are they going to be obligated to provide for you AND a baby too? Your not done school yet...have you tlaked to your parents about this? A pregnancy is not like playing house.
You should seriously talk to your parents about this now.
And use condoms and maybe get on birth control too.
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jessamyn
replied on June 6th, 2008
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Please wait out a few weeks to test then come back for questions.
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Reptar
replied on June 6th, 2008
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You shouldn't be having sex with anyone without protection. I don't even know why you would agree to having sex with someone without protection. There is no way you're going to be able to care for a child on your own at 14, and almost no chance that any 14 year old guy will stick around. Test in about 2 weeks when you miss a period and then take your time deciding what to do. You should really abstain from sex until you have protection, and get yourself on the pill. Think of what it'll be like having to tell your parents you're pregnant and going to school with a huge belly if need any incentive to start protecting yourself.
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manuftw82
replied on June 6th, 2008
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Test in like 2 weeks. I know what's done is done but for the future please invest in some condoms.
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daslautlacht
replied on June 9th, 2008
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Ingi wrote:
Condoms are free at family planning centers (Planned Parenthood).



At my planned parenthood center they are 3 for a quarter Smile
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PenguinsRus
replied on June 9th, 2008
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At mine they are free.

Definitely invest in some condoms. Not only will they protect you from pregnancy, but they will also protect you from STDs. Even if you think you are safe from them, you never know until you and your partner are both tested. Even if your partner only had sex with ONE other person besides yourself who he claims was safe, you never know. That one other could have had sex with 3 others, one of which who has an STD and would pass it on. It really is something extremely serious that you have to consider when having sex. You may think it won't happen to you, but it can. Please, please always wear a condom. It will protect you and your partner from both STDs and from unwanted pregnancies.

If this ever happens again in the future, you can go with a friend who is 18 years old to the pharmacy, or you can be under 18 and go to planned parenthood to by Plan B. If taken within 3 days of having sex, it can help to prevent pregnancy and greatly decrease your chances of becoming pregnant.

Good luck; take a test in 2 weeks and keep us updated.
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Mabel
replied on June 9th, 2008
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daslautlacht wrote:
Ingi wrote:
Condoms are free at family planning centers (Planned Parenthood).



At my planned parenthood center they are 3 for a quarter Smile


Less than bubblegum.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on June 11th, 2008
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25 cents is better then thousands thaT it would cost to have a baby hun
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morgan456
replied on June 19th, 2008
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Your like my girlfriend. I got her pregnant, because the condom split, at 15 but we were in love (And still are) with our son, who we manage to care for superbly. (we are 16 now)
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me_xx
replied on June 24th, 2008
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thats naive, you might be happy and your child might be - but how much happier would you be if youd waited ten years and had more money, life experience etc?
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aochriss
replied on June 26th, 2008
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morgan456 wrote:
Your like my girlfriend. I got her pregnant, because the condom split, at 15 but we were in love (And still are) with our son, who we manage to care for superbly. (we are 16 now)


How do you support yourselves? How do you go to work, go to school, and care for a child?
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