No, some depression can occur for no reason at all, just because of the way our brain works sometimes. The fact that you want to meet people and like to party is a good sign and defiantly doesn't support depression. Though, you have mentioned you are often tired and get upset, perhaps these could be the cause of another illness, mental or physical. i suggest you go to a doctor, or maybe even talk to your sister? and maybe try to see her psychiatrist/ counsellor.