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Am I bisexual or gay?

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Well i am 15 years old...I like masturbating with gay porns but i like masturbating with normal porns....Well i have never seen a friend (or a stranger) "different"...I mean i never wanted to have sex with someone or do general anything with him...well when i was a kid (10-11 years old) i was playing with my friend Grand theft auto:San Andreas in real life....You know..He was the hero and i was the secenery (his friends, cops, enemies etc.)....Just google GTA if you dont know what it is.....Well he get into a candy-shop and he wanted to make sex with a girl..At first we were dong it for furn with out pants up (we were not naked)...At the second time we done sex...i dont remember if he put his peni in my back hole (i am male if you dont get it and he was male too :S)....but i remember not having anything special..I mean i did not get turned-on...Actually to be honest i was turned on a bit but that was all...Well thats my problem and i dont know if i am gay/bisexual or not..I want to mention again that i have never felt anything sexual about a friend or a stranger..I also want to say that i have searched this matter on google so much..Other say that you are gay or bisexual other says that does not mean you are gay...Well i am not so sure..But i think my option matters...I dont have anything with gays i just dont want to be gay..I want to be normal...Also i dont have a gf for a long time now...(5-6 months) that can be the problem?...I started enjoying gay porn movies 3-4 months ago :S thanks you
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replied July 27th, 2011
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hi, u don't need to worry about this at all so enjoy life and as u mature u will find your own way;
only about 1 in 10 get involved in gay sex and only about 4% claim homosexuality BUT MOST young people at some point have thoughts etc. so there is no hurry for u to decide anything or worry either.
good luck
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replied July 27th, 2011
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Hi pocka and welcome to ehealth: You are neither...However, you may end up one of these...The point I am making is that you are young...Experimenting with life...It may take you years to truly understand what your sexual preferance is in life...In the meantime, play it safe...Use condoms and follow your dreams...I wish you well...Take care...

Caroline
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replied April 23rd, 2012
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The previous posters have it right. Its quite normal for youngsters to think or fantasise about members of their own sex, to experiment with members of their own sex and sometimes have an affair or two with members of their own sex before finally discovering their sexual preference...

Sigmund Freud said that with few exceptions everyone is bisexual to some degree and this is proved (almost) as often even hardened so-called heterosexuals will often compromise with a same-sex relationship when mother nature makes the sap rise and there isn't an available woman for miles...

I suggest you don't overdo the porn of any type, or better still leave it alone altogether, and don't masturbate so much it becomes a hobby. You are at an impressionable age and will be for years yet and porn is not real and rarely contains any tips about sex and relationships in real life!
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