well thats just great, your mom does not approve of the guy you are with but hey! lets have a child together to make everything better!

first off, you are a child. children should not raise children and yes you were very dumb to have planned this. have you thought this through? wait how stupid of me, no you clearly did not because of the fact that your asking what could your mom do.
do you know how much a child costs? how hard it is? how frustrating it can be? how much responsibility goes in to having a child? your boyfriend could leave you and do not say he wont, because he could. no 16yr old wants to play grown ups, they WILL say anything to get in your pants.
Your mom could kick you out of the house for going against her wishes of seeing this guy and now getting pregnant by him.
How are YOU and your boyfriend going to provide for a child which is a $40,000 expense, chores and allowances and part time jobs do not cut it. and seeing as you both have not graduated yet, and that you cannot work seeing as you are not of age, how are you both going to provide for a child and graduate from high school? a diploma is a very important document to have when finding and getting a successful job or career.

You better tell your mom about this now, she cannot have your boyfriend arrested or charged for rape because you would have to give a statment saying that,
however, your mother will most likely be the main care provider for this child you are about to have, seeing as she is the only one who brings home an income.
so i would tell her now and listen to what she has to say.
no she will not be happy or plesant about this, and she has damn good reason not to be pleased either.
you really should think about putting this child up for adoption, because you have so much more to live out and experience in life.
you do not know how hard it is to raise a child.

If your anywhere up to 9 weeks you can get the medication abortion not that i condone it but its an option call planned parenthood for options

I could be 100% wrong but i thought in statutory cases it's obvious that they had sex cause she's pregnant, they might not be able to do anything until the baby has a DNA test done but if it comes out positive he could get introuble.

please correct me if i'm wrong, thats something that would be useful to know

..its only rape if someone did not consent having sex.
they cant just charge the guy because the mother does not like the boyfriend.
i never said they did not have sex, she said her mom might charge her boyfriend for rape because she does not like him.
but if they both wanted to have sex, its not rape.

im not exactally sure what your asking though..

He could get charged with Delinquency of a minor and honestly the parent could charge the boy with statutory rape if she knows they have had sex... I know this because My aunts a lawyer and deals with things like this. ALSO. you can have your baby taken away from you if the court thinks your not suitible to be a mother... IF your pregnant my advice is adoption YOU R TOO YOUNG you cannot possibly take care of yourself and another human being. Your mental state is really not ready... but hey who am i to judge i got engaged to my bf and weve been dating ever since i was 13. Wait to have kids...

Also if he was to be charged even if you testified that you were a willing participant the judge would through it out because in the laws eyes your not able to make that choice yet..((meaning they think you dont understand how sex takes a toll on you)) retarded i know and im not being mean trust me. Ive wanted a child ever since i was 13. Im 20 now and hopefully good baby news soon. wait i promise it will be worth it

hmm i never knew that could happen.
but now that you shared that alicia, maybe she will think about her options more.

Well, are you even sure that you are 100% pregnant? Take a pregnancy test first, and if it's positive, then tell your mom. By "do it", do you mean have sex or try and get pregnant? I understand that you think you want a baby, but in reality you are definitely not ready. I'm not trying to be mean or bring you down, but it's the truth. I agree with everything that ProudMommyof2008 had to say. And I could probably sit here and lecture on and on of why your not ready, but I won't. I'll spare ya, but just trust me and wait. You have so much more to experience, and so much more time to make babies later on in life. When your married, have a place of your own, and are financially stable- it makes the experience of having children so much more enjoyable. Because raising a kid is hard as it is, and if you have the foundation set up first, it makes it less stressful than it has to be. Maybe talk to some of the girls on here- I know there's a couple of post's that have young girls talking about wanting one even though they are not ready, but talking with other girls makes them feel they are not alone and actually are normal to feel that way. Please think about it, and use protection next time. I wish you luck.

she honestly needs to a baby is a big responsibility trust me i raised one when i was your age my cousin gave birth and came to live with me & my family and stayed in my room she wouldnt take care of it. So i did. Then when i turnd 16 my fiance brother did the same thing except he dropped the baby off on the doorstep and said ill be back to get it and never came back until it was 3 years old. Trey called me & kevin mommy. I loved him and i miss him. You think you are ready you say oh i can handle this but the honest truth is when you get an appt you pay bills and you have a good paying job then i think youll be able to say i can handle this. otherwise its just not fair to the baby luckily my bf was 19 and turned 20 in may when i was 16... He had a good job and house to take care of the baby

she cant have him locked up on rape unless it was rape or he's 3 yrs older or a legal adult. but to plan a pregnancy so young is very irresposible. im married to a hubby with a great job pregnant with # 2 and still worried about money-not bc we need to be but bc its always goign to be a worry.

you are the soul provider for this child not just when its in the womb but for the next 18 yrs legally and after that if your a decent parent.im 22 and my parents ssstill try and help.

good luck hun