I really need some help on this forum with
regards to an incidence of sexual
indiscretion i was party to a couple of
days ago...
I'm a guy of Indian origin, 27 years of
age....& this incident involves a 23 year
old female sex worker from Russia...
We indulged in foreplay, touching &
kissing, after which she performed oral
sex on me...(i was the insertive receptive
partner)...
Before she performed the Oral, i had put
on a condom. After about 5 - 7 minutes of
that, i was well endowed & then she put on
another condom & continued the Oral
sex...Inbetween the rounds of Oral
sex....in different positions i fondled
various parts of her body, including her
groin region....Now, she had a very neat &
well maintained Body & even her groin
region was clean & dry & there were no
signs of her having cumm or any oozzing on
her part...( I did not touch her vagina or
vaginal opening per se, but all the areas
around it which could have had some
fluids, if not visible but dried up
maybe..what's the risk from this??)
After we were done with the Oral, she took
off the condoms & I carried out a manual
stimulation of my penis with my hands till
i came.....
Now here are the things i'm concerned
about.
1. Just after the Oral, & after the
condoms were removed i wiped my penis with
my t-shirt & had handled my penis for
stimulation....Now as i said there were no
signs of any vaginal fluids or Blood or
any fluid of any kind near her groin area
(to the naked eye) when i had touched &
felt her....but if there was any....would
it have posed a risk when i used the same
hand & fingers to stimulate myself &
handled my penis????? coz i'm sure the my
fingers were pretty close to the head of
my penis & it's aperture when i had
carried out the stimulation.
2. There was certainly her saliva on my
hand when i had handled my penis, would
that pose a risk of infection.....?????
3. I did not see any blood from her mouth
or any on my hands or penis after the
incident to the naked eye...but no idea if
there was any dried remnants of her
vaginal fluids or blood....the room was
not very highly lit up..
Now i do not know her status......if she
weren't HIV ve+ i know i have nothing to
worry...
But if she were, & no female sex worker is
gonna tell if she is...atleast before her
deal is done......where do you think i
stand....???
So do you see any cause of concern even if
there was any vaginal fluid in her groin
area...which would have come onto my hands
when i had fondled her, coz all i could
see was sweat.....& sweat isn't infectious
right ??????
I also want to mention that i had also
kissed the girl near hear pubic
region..again not the vagina or the
opening exactly but the areas around
it....but this wouldn't change your
analysis of my case would it ??? I'm
worried, coz my lips were a bit dry, but
there weren't any large cuts or bleeding
cuts....
I never indulge in vaginal or anal sex
during my encounters......so all i did
this time as well was Oral sex...
My earlier incidents were 8 months before
this one & i have tested at the correct
time frame for those & have been given a
negative result...
Please advise.....
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homerx
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Posted: 04-29-08 10:58am
you cant get HIV from saliva. I don't
think you are at risk but if there were
small cuts or abrasions anywhere then it
is a possibility. Oral sex is not 100%
safe either.
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peterzburgman
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Posted: 04-29-08 13:41pm
Well thanx so much for letting me know
that saliva isn't infectious...well there
weren't any cuts or abrasions on my
hand....they are pretty clean....my lips
were dry, but no freshly bleeding
cuts.....
Would you suggest any testing after this
incident....& given the smallest
element of risk frm this
incident......would a test 6 weeks post
the date of this exposure be sufficient to
alleviate my fears???
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homerx
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Posted: 04-29-08 14:44pm
yes it never hurts to be on the safe side
and to get tested...actually the best way
to make sure is to wait 3 months as the
virus can be undetectable for the first 90
days..and like I said, the risk is very
minimal but I would get tested for your
peace of mind.Good Luck.
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peterzburgman
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Posted: 04-30-08 03:04am
Hi I've been hearing from a lot of info on
the internet that a test 6 week test is
pretty conclusive....what are your
thoughts on this???
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homerx
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Posted: 04-30-08 13:20pm
That may be. I personally would go and get
tested after 3 months even if the 6 week
test results are negative. You cant be 2
careful. Keep us posted,OK? and Good Luck
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