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Q: AIDS risk analysis
asked by: peterzburgman on April 29th, 2008
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I really need some help on this forum with regards to an incidence of sexual indiscretion i was party to a couple of days ago...

I'm a guy of Indian origin, 27 years of age....& this incident involves a 23 year old female sex worker from Russia...

We indulged in foreplay, touching & kissing, after which she performed oral sex on me...(i was the insertive receptive partner)...

Before she performed the Oral, i had put on a condom. After about 5 - 7 minutes of that, i was well endowed & then she put on another condom & continued the Oral sex...Inbetween the rounds of Oral sex....in different positions i fondled various parts of her body, including her groin region....Now, she had a very neat & well maintained Body & even her groin region was clean & dry & there were no signs of her having cumm or any oozzing on her part...( I did not touch her vagina or vaginal opening per se, but all the areas around it which could have had some fluids, if not visible but dried up maybe..what's the risk from this??)

After we were done with the Oral, she took off the condoms & I carried out a manual stimulation of my penis with my hands till i came.....

Now here are the things i'm concerned about.

1. Just after the Oral, & after the condoms were removed i wiped my penis with my t-shirt & had handled my penis for stimulation....Now as i said there were no signs of any vaginal fluids or Blood or any fluid of any kind near her groin area (to the naked eye) when i had touched & felt her....but if there was any....would it have posed a risk when i used the same hand & fingers to stimulate myself & handled my penis????? coz i'm sure the my fingers were pretty close to the head of my penis & it's aperture when i had carried out the stimulation.

2. There was certainly her saliva on my hand when i had handled my penis, would that pose a risk of infection.....?????

3. I did not see any blood from her mouth or any on my hands or penis after the incident to the naked eye...but no idea if there was any dried remnants of her vaginal fluids or blood....the room was not very highly lit up..

Now i do not know her status......if she weren't HIV ve i know i have nothing to worry...

But if she were, & no female sex worker is gonna tell if she is...atleast before her deal is done......where do you think i stand....???

So do you see any cause of concern even if there was any vaginal fluid in her groin area...which would have come onto my hands when i had fondled her, coz all i could see was sweat.....& sweat isn't infectious right ??????

I also want to mention that i had also kissed the girl near hear pubic region..again not the vagina or the opening exactly but the areas around it....but this wouldn't change your analysis of my case would it ??? I'm worried, coz my lips were a bit dry, but there weren't any large cuts or bleeding cuts....

I never indulge in vaginal or anal sex during my encounters......so all i did this time as well was Oral sex...

My earlier incidents were 8 months before this one & i have tested at the correct time frame for those & have been given a negative result...

Please advise.....
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homerx
replied on April 29th, 2008
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you cant get HIV from saliva. I don't think you are at risk but if there were small cuts or abrasions anywhere then it is a possibility. Oral sex is not 100% safe either.
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peterzburgman
replied on April 29th, 2008
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Well thanx so much for letting me know that saliva isn't infectious...well there weren't any cuts or abrasions on my hand....they are pretty clean....my lips were dry, but no freshly bleeding cuts.....

Would you suggest any testing after this incident....& given the smallest element of risk frm this incident......would a test 6 weeks post the date of this exposure be sufficient to alleviate my fears???
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homerx
replied on April 29th, 2008
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yes it never hurts to be on the safe side and to get tested...actually the best way to make sure is to wait 3 months as the virus can be undetectable for the first 90 days..and like I said, the risk is very minimal but I would get tested for your peace of mind.Good Luck. respect
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peterzburgman
replied on April 30th, 2008
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Hi I've been hearing from a lot of info on the internet that a test 6 week test is pretty conclusive....what are your thoughts on this???
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homerx
replied on April 30th, 2008
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That may be. I personally would go and get tested after 3 months even if the 6 week test results are negative. You cant be 2 careful. Keep us posted,OK? and Good Luck 2 U.
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