Men feel a lot of pressure to please women and it can cause all sorts of weird penis issues. The anxieties they feel can cause erectile dysfunctions where they don't get hard, they come too fast, they can't come at all, etc.
Does he get off at all then? Or is it only you then you stop?
I'm having the same problem as your fiance. I can tell it frustrates my girlfriend like it does you, but I can tell you it's not that bad for me. I get to do it with her multiple times and she gets to climax multiple times or at least seems to. She wants me to cum and so do I but sometimes it just doesn't happen. It was the same with my (now ex) wife when she and I were together, though the times we did it were so far apart it didn't seem like as big a deal as it does to me now. But again it's only a big deal to me because it is to her. I feel great either way and know that it'll happen about 1/3 to 1/2 of the time but dang it still feels awesome every time we do it (5+ times a week at age 46). Hopefully your guy feels the same and you both can relax about it and figure it'll improve with more exercise, better diet, and other good suggestions people are making.
If you are a girl, help him out...Keep him hard...Introduce some hot dirty talking into it...You know, I came baby, but make me do it again...I want you to **** me good...Do you want to suck my ***** again?..Or shall I suck on your ****?...Do all the things that are in the back of your mind to help a man be all that he can be....Believe me, what you get for this bold act of being a hot and horny woman, is worth it's weight in gold....Either that or I will roast in hell...
Now you all know why an older woman hides behind a "fake" name on a computer...My neighbor's would all stroke out...But, oh what a time in life that this man and I have had....May you all be as blessed....
I have a question,I've been with this man for almost 6 months. He's 52 and we get along really good and when we have sex he start out fingering which is so amazing! But, have noticed he still has a hard on but not really hard. When he enters me while semi-soft he pulls out to repositions me and wham..he comes! This happens everytime we are together. He's not on any medications. Is it because he's not really into me? I mean, how can an older man have a hard on in the beginning our foreplay and when we start to make love he goes semi-soft,does it have to do with his age? Anybody please tell me,need to know why this happens. Thanks