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Q: Afraid of orgasm and having sex

asked by: 14344 on May 15th, 2009

New User

Ahmmmm..since i was a child...i want to experienced what is like to have sex with someone but when i attempt to do it it seems that i cant coz im scared....and it opposes my action....im afraid that if i lost my virginity no one will like me coz im no longer a virgin and myb if i do it ill regret it someday..but everytime i try to forget it...there are times that my sexual orgasm will arise and that makes me horny....i just imagine that im doing it with other person i just touch my boobs to body until my orgasm will be lower.. and cry out loud........

im just confuse of this.all i always think is about sex..and arouse me even with same sex...

how can i prevent this??what should i do??

help me pls...

trully yours<
14344

Replies(3)

suewil

replied on May 15th, 2009

Supporter

have sex

You can feel very scared about it all, or it feeling about getting pregnant again i went the same well after all more kids.. All i can say is do it get it over with and you well feel better about it, but only do it went you want to have sex dont let any one push you into it,,

ServiceU

replied on June 14th, 2009

Supporter

if your afraid to have sex, then you shouldnt have sex until you know for sure your ready. nothing should be forced!
i would try to tell you to aim towards marriage. if that doesnt happen, i would hope it will be with someone that you believe will be someone that you feel is "the one".
your going to change boyfriends like you change underwear. that's why i dont suggest you have sex so young.
being an adult we are afraid of our children getting into a sexual relationship and dealing with break up which can be an unbearable feeling most adults cant sometimes handle.
why be afraid of orgams, that is God's gift to us in the act of sex.

MyrahU

replied on June 14th, 2009

Active User, very eHealthy

I agree with ServiceU. Wait until it's with someone you are really in love with. Someone you trust and can be vulnerable with. Don't just "get over it." This is something special that you should take seriously. If you don't rush into it, it will be a much better experience.

In the mean time, self-explore to curb the urges. There's nothing wrong with that. It's perfectly healthy and natural. It also lets you figure out what you like so when the time does come to be intimate with another person, you can give good instructions.

Just wait until you are ready emotionally. Your body may be ready, but your heart and mind still need more time. Only you can say when it's right.

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