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Q: Affection issues
asked by: sd1125 on January 1st, 2009
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My fiance and I have been together about 10 months. When we first met we were crazy about eachother and very affectionate. We moved in together very quickly and in about 5 months we were fighting like crazy. Couldn't be in the same room without arguing. Sex started getting less frequent because I didn't want it. The fighting made me distance myself little by little. Then we went on vacation and he proposed to me. I said yes with conditions. That I didnt want to rush to set a date or get married. I needed more time. Then about a month later when I'm debating ether or not we should be together I find out were pregnant and going to keep the baby. The fighting has continued throughout all of this and at this point I don't even want to kiss him on the lips. I physicaly cant bring myself to do it. I will cuddle with him and give massages but those types of things are the most I can do. We have been to 3 counsling sessions and that seems to help with the fighting a little. I don't know what to do..are we ust not right for eachother or is my lack of affection due to the pregnancy? I'm 4 1/2 months preg. I am a very sexual intimate person by nature and this is killing me. FYI-He is not the type of guy lookswise that I am traditionally attracted to, and our sense of humor is very different, but he is very caring in many ways and helps me out a lot with the house and other things. He is a very good person.
Please help me I need advice.
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