I am a 19 male, good health, experiencing some ED. i never used to have this problem. it happened for the first time about a year n half ago.. ever since then, i have had troubles maintaining my erection. With my new gf getting very stressed about about it too, i am desperate to seek help or some type of advice. I feel like a loser. I used to be able to maintain one for an hour or more with intercourse without a problem.. even sex more than once a day.. Then bam! out of nowhere.. an almost instant change happened with a woman that i was talking to at the time. Now i dont know if im too worried about it happening again or what but it is very stressful. I can maintain an erection just fine when im alone and right when we start foreplay, then when we get ready to have intercourse, it suddenly goes dead. I could be worrying too much maybe? On the occasion i can get it up long enough, but i have to work so hard at it, almost to the point of ejaculation, that i dont last long at all. it has happened with 3 women now... i dnt know whats going on.. please help me... ive tried about everything i know to do.. i really wanna get this problem fixed to please the woman i care about.. is it something im doing? is it in my head? i am very attracted to this girl... and have a high desire for it.. i just dont know whats going on.. Any thoughts, advice, or suggestions on what could be happening.. would be SO helpful...Thanks!
You don't need horny goat weed dude. Try to be upfront with some of the women you are dating. They will appreciate the honesty. Just tell them you get nervous the first few times, but that if they are patient, all will be fine. I would also recommend not watching porn, it can desensitize you to the real thing. You don't want to get in the habit of relying on your computer to get an erection. Try to abstain from porn or masturbating for a few weeks, see if it doesn't solve your temporary issue in the bedroom. You'll be fine guy, just relax.