I moved to texas to be with my bf i have know for a year he was a truck driver so i decided to be on the truck with him until he found a house or something he started talking to his ex again and we started having problems i told him i was pregnant and he doesnt want to talk about it im back home now and things are worse my parents want me to give it up shouldnt it be what i want but he doesnt talk to me like he used to he wont talk to me about the baby he is ignoring the fact im pregnant i love him i stressed with him not knowing what he wants and my parents wont leave me alone about adoption i dont want to talk about adoption its not what i want
Dont do something thats not coming from your heart... Its what you want. Thats someone that could bring happiness to your life... Forget About everyone just worry about your baby.. Traust me god will help you
I don't know why you are so against adoption. Have you researched it and contacted a reputable agency to have your concerns addressed and questions answered? I agree you have to do what is right for you, but you should have researched alll your options.
Contrary to what some may believe, unwed parents who place their children for adoption are not taking âthe easy way outâ or abandoning their responsibility. Instead, they are placing the needs of their children before their own feelings and desiresâthe essence of true parenthood. Such a decision is deserving of the highest commendation and respect.
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Best of luck to you and your baby.
I agree that you should do what is right for you, if you do not want to give your child up for adoption then dont even consider it. No, I dont believe that there is anything wrong with adoption... but we can't hide the fact that if its not in your heart, then there could be major emotional consequences in the end
If you dont want to give your baby up, dont. It is your choice and if you decide to keep it then keep it. Dont worry about him or your parents just focus on you and your baby. If you decide to give it up then thats your decision, but in the mean time, you should make sure that you are healthy and just chill a bit because stress is bad for both you and the baby.I hope you have a good pregnancy. perhaps he will come around, but if not its not the end of the world. there are men out there that will love and respect you and the baby, so dont feel that if he doesnt that you are totally alone. Im proof of that. I met my boyfriend and told him off the bat i was pregnant and he loves this baby like it was his. Youll be fine, just do what you think is best and what you can live with. No matter what decision you make, it will effect your life. good luck!