instead of an abortion, y don't you just have the kid and give it up for adoption? There are thousands of people out there who cant have children and adopt, and they go to wonderful homes! Have you thought about that idea, instead of just terminating, because i know that Ive tried for 4 years to have a baby and when i finally got pregnant i miscarried at 3 months! That was devastating to me! Have you really thought about this, is this something that your going to regret later?