|Why is it that adoption rarely comes up as a solution to some of these tragic circumstances that we hear about? Is it selfishness or delusion that keeps so many incapable, extremely young and immature girls from giving their infants to a family who could give that child a much better quality of life than they can?|
|but if you cant afford a child or you cant manage a child, or if you have more to experience in life and to grow as a child, would it not be in the childs best intrest to be put up in adoption to a home that loves them and can give them the things they need?
would there not be a pain of having an abortion to a child even though not fully developed but still of your flesh and blood?
i guess what it comes down to is that i cant say for sure wether a fetus is a person or not, but on the off chance that it has a soul or whatever, i wouldnt want to chance killing it again. there are so many thoughts and feelings on the subject i cant always pinpoint what i am feeling, so i generally tend to err on the side of caution. .
|Law. a human being (natural person) or a group of human beings, a corporation, a partnership, an estate, or other legal entity (artificial person or juristic person) recognized by law as having rights and duties.|
|falafal4ever81 have you got kids????
i know that if from the very start you know u cant afford this child then its in your hands to decide. after 9 months of carrying if u believe adoption is the best. you will not want to let go of that baby. all your life you will be regreting giving it away and you will always hope that one day they may come back and ask for answers. whats your answer??? you cudnt aford them?? i would be gutted to think that they never tried!.
sometimes abortion is the answer before the question is even asked! that childs not fully developed and no where neer it. to be honest if i had to choose it would be abortion although i am not for it at all. i couldnt give a kid of mine up for adoption.
its a pain that will never go away