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hey there
ok so i am an 18 year old guy and im kinda addicted to porn and masterbation lol... who isnt but anyways i find myself always watching the movies about a mom and her son's friend. its probably because my biggest sexual fantasy is i want to have sex with one of my friend's mom. i mean i have known him and his mom my whole life but i cant help it, i sometimes masterbate to the thought of the two of us together. i dont know what to do cause i shouldnt be thinking this. its not right you know, just wondering what people's thoughts were?
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replied March 29th, 2009
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I wouldn't worry about it.
How to put this....
okay here goes..
A lot of ppl have fantasies. It's something I feel you generally would keep to yourself though. Like lets say you had a blonde hair gf and say you have fantasies about a brunette, you're sure as hell not going to tell your gf about this are you. Do you get my point.
I have a bf and i too have an imagination but he will never know most the things i think about. it's personal..
There's nothing wrong with it though..
You prob think of your friends mother because you see her a lot & find her attractive. no harm done. don't be embarressed but maybe keep try & keep it to yourself.
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replied September 3rd, 2009
I bet your buddy thinks about your mom too - it's all cool. Maybe you guys could work something out?
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replied September 3rd, 2009
dude, i masturbate about you and his mom all the time... it's cool
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replied September 3rd, 2009
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Hey steven89
When you're a boy in your teens and not sexually active addiction to masturbation and porn is a lot like addiction to air. It's just part of your existence. If you find yourself obsessing on one fantasy you may try forcing yourself to masturbate to different porn. Continuing to indulge an obsession just throws fuel on the fire. I think you understand this isn't a healthy or realistic fantasy. Time and diversity will get you over it very normally.
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replied July 8th, 2010
Hey Steve89,

I going to tell you something and I hope you listen. You not everyone is addicted to masterbation, please don't believe that! The internet is teaching some very dangerous things. I know you may not do this, but stop watching porn now! If you don't then you my NEVER actually have sex with someone you love or someone you just want to have sex with. Trust me, I know this the hard way.
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replied July 31st, 2010
At 18 you want to find an older women who can educate you in the ways of sex and all that there is to learn.Someone unattached who would love someone younger-for obvious reasons.Having a wank to porn ,wanking alone,having sexual thoughts is sort of normal.Extremes are not good but hey we all have sexual thoughts until we reach a spiritual region where we have overcome it (pun not intended)
Take it from me a single woman post menopausal with money maybe with an avid sex desire for YOU is what u want.Practice monogamous sex one lady -grand tour.Shell love you for it.,all that experience to go through..go for it
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replied August 2nd, 2010
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Speaking from a slightly older point of view, I am 29 female and would be highly flattered if I found out someone who is 16 fancied me. However, you have to think of it from the older person's point of view. They could get into serious trouble if they did something with you and they might not know how to react if you told them.

From a personal point of view, I was in love with my psciatrist who did very casual laid back sessions with me and I really fell in love with him. After leaving his clinic and heading to spain I have got in contact with him 4 years later but it may not lead anywhere, so there's hope for you yet. Why not get on with your studies, wait a few years then her situation may have changed you will be more mature and there may be a chance for you both to get together....

karen
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