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Yea. im a 24yr old male and I've been masterbating since I was 11. (age I lost it..) and like I am addicted to doing it b/c everytime Im on the computer I have to look at porn. (i own my own site b/c I thought it would help overcome the addiction)
But I noticed...been noticed that I cum much more quicker everytime and its lowering my stamina ALOT...like 5 min an Im done, even during sex. So is there a way to either A: stop masterbating too much, B: increase my stamina or if there is a C i dont know
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replied February 1st, 2009
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astarael,
There is nothing wrong with masturbation, we all do it. If your masturbating too much then you may be wearing yourself out a bit. Regarding stamina I believe you can try to stop-n-start during your jacking session. That is to say, pull away at it until just before you feel like cumming and then stop and let the feeling pass, and do this on and off for a while before going for it and shooting a load.

My 2 cents,

Wendy
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replied February 5th, 2009
The being done too quick can be a mental thing. If I'm motivated I can finish myself off in under a minute. If I'm distracted I can seriously try for 20 minutes then just give up. The girl thing can be a problem though as sometimes you feel like you're going to finish 60 seconds in. The key is to realize this, and stop. There is nothing wrong with just stopping right before your orgasm, letting yourself calm down, and then staring up again. Sometimes I have to stop and restart three or four times before my penis finally decides its in it for the long haul. After that you may find yourself having to seriously try to achieve orgasm which a woman will never mind. And stopping doesn't have to be a complete buzz kill. Just pull out and move to oral sex with her while your pending climax tapers off. Or change positions which will give it time to calm down. Or some girls are flattered when you admit they're so good that your about to cum, and will wait affectionately for you to calm down. Sometimes a guy can't help reaching orgasm in five minutes, but you can make the decision not to cum, and let the night continue on.
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replied February 5th, 2009
Another note, the stop usually doesn't have to be longer than like 5 seconds, and a lot of times you'll find that after you've stopped when you start up again it will actually feel so much better but won't lead to immediate orgasm.
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replied June 1st, 2009
Former Masturbation Addict
Masturbation was a big problem to me too. I was addicted to masturbation since I was 13. When I got married I stopped masturbating and found great relief and tranquility of not masturbating at all. When we separated I started to masturbate again; my peace and tranquility was gone.I've tried yoga,hiking,biking,swimming and nothing helped until I return to the Church. Religion helped me a lot to find again peace and tranquility and I stopped masturbating though I get horny at least 5 times a day. Based on my bitter experience masturbation ruins physical and mental health of men. Moreover, I started to watch porn 5 years ago and it was a nightmare for me - I lost 5 years of my life just by watching porn on internet. If someone want an advice, let me know.
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