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Q: Accidental anal penetration
asked by: testing123 on October 25th, 2008
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my boyfriend and i were having sex today, and as is our preferred position i was bent over the bed and he was penetrating me vaginally. however, his penis came out, and when he penetrated again, it was in my anus. weirdly, this didnt hurt at the time, but we had both agreed that we never wanted to do this so i pushed him away and turned around and told him where he had actually penetrated me.. we were both mortified.

this was about 7 hours ago, and now my anus is really sore and things such as walking and sitting hurt. i've had a warm bath, but the pain is still there. would this suggest any long term damage or will it heal quite quickly?

im only 15 so this is a bit of a mortifying situation! any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Jazzy77
replied on October 25th, 2008
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i don't think that this will damage you long-term. i do have a big problem with what you are doing at your age however. you should not be doing anything at your age.

it's very difficult for young girls. i know because i have been in your shoes...but i have to say, and i think you know that you really don't need to be doing any of this at 15.

why don't you take this experience as a lesson and just stop doing what you're doing for a few years until you are really old enough to handle the things that come with living an adult life.

i honestly wish someone would have told me just that when i was your age. it may have prevented me a lot of heartache. please let me know if i can help you resist the temptation to grow up too early. i'd like to help you.

if you don't take my advice...be careful.
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Lilly Ivy
replied on October 25th, 2008
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It's gonna hurt. Especially since it was quick and hardly lubed up. As long as you are not bleeding, you should be fine. If the pain doesn't go away in a few days, or if you start to bleed, or if your BMs are hurting you, call the doctor. Don't be embarrassed about anything, they are made to help.
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unnamedny
replied on October 27th, 2008
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I really doubt that it was an accident, in my personal experience it's very hard to get in there with the lube. Another thing, pain is not going to go away really really fast. If you are going to get some blood when you are going to go to the bathroom, don't panic that much, it will heal eventually but it takes some time because it's a gentle spot.
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BlechImagin
replied on April 5th, 2009
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Haha thats actually terribly funny because the same thing happened to me about.. 5 hours ago. He was penetrating me from behind vaginally, and might i add quite fast and hard, when he slipped out. Of course, continuing with his strokes he went right back in at the exact speed and pressure as before, except into the wrong region. It was pretty darn painful, he didn't notice until i yelped and moved away immediately. Although, it was quite a good laugh afterwards. Don't worry, I'm still sore too
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