Abusive behavior?

Hi angeleyes232001,

Please have a calm and rational conservation with Janie as to why she has taken this position. You may not like her answer but if this is her request, you will have to explain to your child that someimes adults make choices that hurt our feelings, nevertheless, we have to accept them. Maybe your boyfriend told her he wants to end the relationship but hasn't gotten the courage to tell you so. Have a talk with him about this as well. I would have both the children to refer to her as Janie, unless you are legally, married, his mother would be Janie and and not Nana.

Good Luck,

Faded Rose