Im 16 and recently found out i was 7 weeks pregnant, when me and my boyfriend found out we were in total shock i broke down and cried for hours, we even done 3 more tests just to be 100% certain.
We were really worried about what to do but i didnt want to think about how my parents were gunna react as i knew my dad would kill my boyfriend and throw me out.
As i was still in shock i refused to talk about it for days as i had just started college and some of my friends were pregnant but i never thought it would happen to me.
We plucked up the courage to tell my mum who straight away said "abortion, thats your only choice", i was devestated, i thought she would understand.
She shouted at me for even thinking about keeping the baby.
All she could say was that it was nothing just a blood clot there was nothing to see, she booked me in at a clinic for women and booked me for the medical (pill) abortion
which causes you to miss-carry.
I had my scan done but i couldnt see anything so i wasnt in too much pain and there was no heartbeat so i took my first pill to stop the pregnany from carrying on, the next day i went back to take the other four pills to proceed with the miss carriage.
Not even an hour after that, i had began to miss carry i was in so much pain the amount of blood was horrifying. I went to the toilet and couldnt move it was so painful i couldnt even go to the toilet. All i could see was clots of blood.
I later spoke to a friend who is pregnant and she told me that my baby had a brain and its organs were growing, my mum said nothing all she told me was that it was a blood clot. She made me kill my baby and i will never forgive her for lying to me! I hate her now and she knows that.
so make sure if your gunna have an abortion you do it for yourself no one else you will regret it i have and plently of other girls have. dont make the same mistake i did. Be proud to want to have a baby.