your continously hurting your body whether you think you are or not. there are many people who can not have babies and when you are ready to have one your gonna be one of those girls who cant get pregnant anymore cause of all the damage you have done to your body! not only are you hurting you what about that innocent life you are murdering? do you think about that? stop having sex or use protection if you cant take on the responsibility maybe your not ready to have sex then!!!

My god 3 abortions,i do not judge your gf on the first abortion mistakes happen its not somthing i could do but it was her choice and i respect that.But abortions are bad things they are not something you do to rid yourself of a problem maybe explain this to her and if she is set on having another then do all you can to stop her getting pregnant again until she is ready as multiple abortions can harm her repoductive organs

A third abortion???? So she thinks of abortion as some sort of contraception then.... Perhaps she should get a hysterectomy instead. Disgusting.

that is wrong.. if she spreads her legs, then she should be ready for the responsibility... some women can't have babies, and would give anything to have the chance to be pregnant, while there are other's who don't care at all and are VERY selfish....

I am one how does belive in a womens right and i have also had one before. BUT she is only 18 and on her 3!!!! she needs to sit down with her doctor and talk asap it not healthy and plus she is so young. you cant make her do anything but it is women like this that make a womens choice looks bad. please talk to her about her health, and wants in life

Get a new girlfriend, wear condoms with spermicide with every girl you have sex with until you're married. Your wife is the least likeliest person to abort your child if you marry someone who wants to have children.

wow 3 abortions is a little excessive. theyre are so many people that deserve kids that cant have them and im not one to judge but 3 isnt a mistake thats irresposibility.

as for you im sorry you got someone of that nature pregnant, no offense to you or her but its a lost cause if she has had 3 already. i mean waht makes you think shes going to want to keep this one??

good luck and if you need help or a consult im here just pm me anytime

well, unfortunately i believe a girl can only legally have 4 abortions [or so it is in new york], so she really needs to sit and think about the responsibility that sex brings. if she has an abortion now, whether what mistake or whatever she does in the future, she has to deal with, just like these decisions. i believe it's best to see a therapist.

i dont want to seem nasty but does your girlfriend want the reputation of a slapper who decided she didn't want to cope with her "mistakes".you can only have so many mistakes, 1=mistake,2=careless 3 =you have a problem....think of it as you've killed 3 children!.lots of couples cant concieve, my mum lost her baby not that long ago,im sixteen im totally against abortion.its not a contraceptive.if your not wanting to get pregnant but are not using contraception then shut your legs and keep them that way!,its totally irresponsible what she is doing.and no offence to the person asking the question but....wear a condom she hardly likely to keep any of the pregnancies,if shes aborted 3 already.its disgusting!

three before 18 years old? Oh my!

unfortunately if she has decided, then what she decides goes. it sounds to me like she is not being responsible at all and using abortion more as a form of birth control. both of you need to take a hard look at birth control options and you need to make sure that you are covering it on your end. you also need to re evaluate your relationship with her because this is definitly not a healthy one.