then dont have sex; simple as that! or use birth control.

i have 2 kids who are 16 months old - son and 6 months old - daughter. give your baby a chance for goodness sakes! YOUR 4 MONTHS PREGNANT!!! you can feel movements and kicks within a month or LESS! don't hurt your baby because you don't want a baby. give a couple a chance who wants a baby then = adoption.

happy_2009 - This is not the place to criticize or put down other people; it is meant to help and answer questions. And there is NO way you can feel kicks in a month or less. In the first month (4-5 weeks) the embryo is smaller then a sesame seed!

Abortion method choice - It's been a few weeks since your post. I'm not sure what you have decided to do, but normally at that stage in pregnancy, a D&E (dilation and evacuation) is preformed. I have had an abortion, but it was done very early (under 6 weeks) so I'm not sure what to tell you about what to expect from the doctor. There are some other posters on here who may be able to answer your questions. Whatever you have chosen, I wish you the best.