Nishprii, Tell him to chill out about the financial problems. You may never get another chance to have a baby. Never take a life for granted. Weren't you heartbroken when you lost the other two? Getting pregnant is not always easy. 5 months along is awfully late to have an abortion and that may be hard on your body as well. You have seen what sudden hormone changes have done. As you get older it is worse.If you can't afford it, give it up for adoption, many adoptive parents have to wait years. But before you make any decision, talk to your doctor, with all of your health issues, it is important. Gosh, by now isn't baby kicking? It's not just a few cells rolling around in a tiny ball anymore.