I'm 16 (yes young) & me & my boyfriend (I've been dating him for two years) kinda sorta had sex, he had a condom on, & only went in once, but, i missed my period(well kinda) i spotted. Took a test, came up - twice then .. I'm confused on how this happen =[ & worried. I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant, & my family would kill me & him. He's in the military & he deploys for six months at a time (witch means i would have to take care of it alone & the emotional times I'll be going through alone.) i know my parents will stress me & other teens, thinking i'm a "promiscuous person" when i'm not by far =[
witch makes me soo scared. i love my boyfriend & he loves him. (i haven't told him yet) cause he's not to smart in SEX ED (as am i, i guess) & he'll think cause he had a condom on it 100% effected.. & I don't wanna tell him. I've told one of my closest friend. She said "abortion".. & I was thinking of getting... i really need someone to talk to about it, to comfort me & not call me a promiscuous person =[ .. please. i don't have anyone i can really talk to about this. & i'm soo worried.
I have so many goals, & a kid is not what i need right now.
I'm saving myself from this point on til i'm married, I dont wanna go through this again. EVER =[
if anyone has any experience on "Abortion" or knows a lot of info.
please tell me
Thanks..