Hello all . I would like to introduce myself. My name is Ernesto and i'm 23 in a realationship with my girlfriend for about 6 months now . I am going crazy here....I have been with my girlfriend for 6 six months now but have known her for years.. she got pregnate and we found out in august she was 2months and a half. well she went to the doctor in mid august to get a check up because she was sick for a long time. Turns out that she had an infection that the pregnacy caused so she went to the gyno a day later. supposdly she had a "surgical procedure " to test for cancer and other things. SHE told me they had to scrape some tissues from her inside to check for this and that she could not have sex for a week and would be bleeding for a few days...umm, i'm sorry but to me it sounds like she had an abortion and it just so happens that on the 2nd after this, she lifts something heavy and tells me a lot of blood came out. she thought she had a miscarriage and goes to the doctor *not gyno* 4 days later and they tell her it doesn't look good but that she has to follow up with her gyno. this sounds very fishy to me and i want to believe her but my gut is telling me a differnt story. how can i find out for sure ? could she talk to her doctor and tell her to talk to me about her medical history ??? this is eating me up and i've been having nightmares.. please help.

i love her so much but the story just doesn't seem right.... she went to the gyno to check for cancer and such and she comes out with CRAMPS for a few days and is bleeding for a few days as well ? can't have sex for a week and it just so happens that she thinks she had a miscarriage.... IS THERE a procedure that makes you bleed and cramp for days !??!?!? I've never heard of it .....